Wei Yongkang, a child prodigy in Hunan, was 17 years old. Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics of Chinese Academy of Sciences with the second total score and became a graduate student. He is approaching adulthood and no longer wants to be accompanied by his mother. Wei Yongkang, a prodigy in Hunan, died.
Wei Yongkang, a prodigy from Hunan, died at the age of 1. In Huarong, Yueyang, Hunan, the hometown of prodigy Wei Yongkang, Wei Yongkang's name has long been a household name. The locals joked that they didn't know the names of the county magistrate and mayor, but they would never know the legend of Wei Yongkang.
It is no exaggeration to say that Wei Yongkang is a "child prodigy", but his life is magical and bumpy. 1983, Huarong, Yueyang, Hunan. His father, a veteran, was paralyzed in bed all the year round. His mother works in a local department store (1994 laid off).
However, although Wei Yongkang's family was poor, his arrival gave his mother great comfort, because his mother found that the child was too early and not very clever. When he was one year and three months old, she began to teach him to write. Unexpectedly, at the age of two, he has mastered more than 2000 Chinese characters. Since then, his mother has devoted all her time to her children's study. Wei Yongkang Jr. has no toys and no time to play. He spends all his time studying, and reading and studying is also his interest.
At the age of 4, Wei Yongkang basically completed his junior high school course. At the age of eight, he skipped several grades and entered a key middle school. And his learning talent and IQ are really amazing. During his middle school years, he won many awards, such as the second and third prizes in the Olympic Chemistry Competition, the second prize in the Physics Competition, and the Hope Cup National Mathematics Invitational Tournament. The name "prodigy" is even more famous.
1996, 13-year-old Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University with a total score of 602. At this time, his mother, who had been laid off for two years, took her son to the university to take care of him.
/kloc-at the age of 0/7, Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics of Chinese Academy of Sciences with the second total score and became a graduate student. He is approaching adulthood and no longer wants to be accompanied by his mother.
However, Wei Yongkang, who entered the Chinese Academy of Sciences, lost her mother's personal care and her life was out of control. He often doesn't know when to eat, sleep and get up. He didn't know what to wear after getting up, and even made a strange move of wearing single slippers on snowy days in winter.
The hardships of life, coupled with the fact that he only cared about reading and learning since childhood, and lacked the ability to communicate with others, made this gifted boy suffer a heavy blow, and eventually his studies were also affected. In the end, Wei Yongkang was dismissed by the Chinese Academy of Sciences because he could not adapt to the teaching mode of the school and his studies could not meet the requirements.
Since then, the dreams of prodigies and talented teenagers have come to an abrupt end. It is his mother who is more difficult to accept all this than Wei Yongkang. According to Wei's mother's self-report, she really couldn't accept the result at that time and felt that the children she had educated all her life were so disappointing. In a rage, she once pointed to a tall building and pointed to the endless road to scold her son: If you don't cherish such a good condition, why don't you die?
After Wei Yongkang was expelled from school and returned home, he was trapped in self-doubt and self-abandonment for a long time. He had several conflicts with his mother and ran away from home. He ran away from home for the longest time and didn't come home for 39 days. When he ran away from home, he wandered around looking for a job, but he finally gave up because he couldn't adapt.
Since then, he and his mother have fallen into deep pain. His mother once told the media bluntly that she didn't dare to look up when she went out, for fear that others would ask about her children. Everyone seems to be laughing at the fall of Wei Yongkang.
Wei Yongkang's mother used to be very proud of her educational methods. She also wrote a book of 30,000 to 40,000 words about how to teach her son to become a successful person, and expected her children to publish it after graduation from the doctor's degree. However, after Wei Yongkang's life and mental condition appeared, she finally calmed down and reflected on her educational mistakes.
Since then, she has changed the way of education that emphasizes the importance of learning and becoming a talent, and encouraged her grown-up son to start with his self-care ability such as dressing, cooking and housework, and also encouraged his son to put down his books and actively communicate with others. With the improvement of Wei Yongkang's self-care ability and communication ability, her mentality began to improve, and she was able to help her mother take care of her paralyzed father.
After experiencing infinite glory and ups and downs, Wei Yongkang finally returned to a normal life. In 2005, he worked in an aerospace research institution in Shanghai, and his working ability was also affirmed by the company's boss and colleagues. I met my wife here. After they got married, they have always had a good relationship and have a son and a daughter.
However, on September 9th, 20021,1654381,Wei Yongkang died suddenly, ending his legendary and bumpy life. Today, his soul is buried in his hometown.
The death of a child prodigy has once again triggered a big discussion about the educational methods of "child prodigy". Many people condemned his mother for violating the law of education, which made him brilliant in his early years, but it also made him suffer more. But in xu teacher's view, if you are poor, you will change your mind. Although the mother's practice is not appropriate, no one should question the mother's contribution and doubt her love for her son. May the dead rest in peace and the living be well.
Wei Yongkang, a prodigy from Hunan Province, died at the age of 2 4, finished junior high school, entered a key high school at the age of 8, went to college at the age of 13, and was admitted to the graduate school of Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17.
This is a typical "child prodigy" growth trajectory. Although full of controversy, it is still "other people's children" in the mouth of many parents, which makes people envy.
Wei Yongkang, a primary school principal in Hunan, was once called an oriental prodigy. 165438+died on June 9th at the age of 38.
The story of Wei Yongkang has been widely known. 1983, from Huarong County, Yueyang, Hunan. Under the careful arrangement of his parents, he finished junior high school at the age of 4, entered Huarong County Key Middle School at the age of 8, and was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University at the age of 13.
/kloc-at the age of 0/7, Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics, Chinese Academy of Sciences. The original plan was to continue his graduate studies, but in 2003, Wei Yongkang was discouraged by the Chinese Academy of Sciences because of his lack of self-care ability.
Many netizens felt sorry for Wei Yongkang's untimely death. Among them, a netizen's comment caused a buzz. He said that "I feel that life has pressed the fast forward button", which has caused a lot of thinking.
If Wei Yongkang had not been discouraged by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, would it still be this result? Although life can't go backwards and all the assumptions are meaningless, we will still make a judgment in our hearts.
He was fired because he couldn't take care of himself. Some people say that the Chinese Academy of Sciences will not cherish talents, and it is necessary to arrange special people to take care of this special talent. In fact, this idea is good, but it is difficult to do in reality. Wei Yongkang was only 20 years old when he left China Academy of Sciences. He was already an adult, not a child.
So where is the root of the problem?
The pace of life is too fast, only paying attention to grades and ignoring people's all-round development, and aiming at children's mastery of knowledge and coping with exams may often lead to ruined children's results.
Wei Yongkang was born in an ordinary family, his father was a veteran and his mother was a worker in a department store, but the couple paid special attention to their children's education.
They think that children are gifted at an early age, and they are gifted beyond ordinary people in learning, because they find that children can teach their sons to read when they are just two or three months old. Is this what ordinary people can imagine?
In addition to literacy, the couple often read Tang poetry to their son. Wei Yongkang's mother once publicly stated that her child had mastered more than 1000 Chinese characters when she was two years old. Many netizens think this is a joke. Usually, a two-year-old child is still crying in his mother's arms, but Wei Yongkang has learned more than 65,438+0,000 Chinese characters.
What is even more incredible is that Wei Yongkang finished the junior high school course at the age of 4, and only selectively studied the second and sixth grades in primary school. At the age of 8, he entered the county key middle school ... and at the age of 65,438+07, he entered the Institute of High Energy Physics of Chinese Academy of Sciences.
Throughout the process of studying in Wei Yongkang, we can see that everything is fast-paced and advanced, and everything takes less time than others, but what is the ultimate sacrifice?
Wei Yongkang's mother said that children can only succeed in the future if they concentrate on their studies, so she took on all the things at home and took care of her son's daily life full-time. Even when Wei Yongkang was studying at Xiangtan University, she stayed with her all the time.
However, after Wei Yongkang arrived in Beijing, due to the lack of mother's care, his life and study were chaotic, and he could not adapt to the independent campus life at all. However, he persisted for three years, because life affected his studies, and was finally persuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
This may be the result that Wei Yongkang's mother did not expect at all. She thought that as long as she studied hard, she could change her destiny so that she could temporarily ignore the trivial things in life. Unexpectedly, she lost her life because of her lack of living ability.
This may be the reason why netizens said that Wei Yongkang's life was pressed the fast forward button. It was the age when I grew up and learned to live independently, but it was all used for learning. The pace of life is so fast that he is caught off guard at the critical moment of life.
After dropping out of school in Wei Yongkang, although his mother began to reflect on his education and Wei Yongkang himself gradually matured, his experience of dropping out of Chinese Academy of Sciences made him criticized and under great pressure.
Wei Yongkang said that his greatest wish is to go back to school, because that is his specialty and interest, but time cannot go back. As he grows older, he can only accept the reality.
The next day is the same as ordinary people. I married my wife and gave birth to children. My wife also graduated from college. Having a pair of children after marriage, the family is happy.
Although the outside world still thinks that Wei Yongkang is a Woodenhead who lacks the ability to live independently, his wife thinks that this prodigy has become a husband who knows how to live, and his personality has become more and more cheerful, and the whole family is very happy.
But fate is always like this. When you feel happy, misfortune comes. There is no legend of prodigy Wei Yongkang in the world.
Perhaps Wei Yongkang's death is not necessarily related to the fact that life goes too fast, but the fall of a child prodigy still brings us some thoughts on family education. Don't let the children walk too fast. The growth of children not only needs to learn knowledge, but also needs the ability to live independently and the courage to face setbacks.
Wei Yongkang, a prodigy in Hunan, was three or two years old when he died, and he was able to read thousands of words. /kloc-was admitted to Xiangtan University at the age of 0/3, and/kloc-received an olive branch from the Institute of Physics of the Chinese University of Science and Technology at the age of 0/7. Such a realistic version of the "child prodigy" character became a tragedy at the moment he left his mother.
Everyone expects him to make contributions to the academic circles in China, but we have heard that he has no ability to live independently, dropped out of the Chinese University of Science and Technology, and even became a negative model under the "child prodigy model".
What the hell happened in here? What role did his parents play in it? The observation of Ziya Tongqu students in this issue tells us that Wei Yongkang, known as the "genius prodigy" with high scores and low energy, is a story full of honor but full of sadness.
The hardworking mother gave her son all "love"
Wei Yongkang 1983 was born in Huarong County, Hunan Province. His father was ill in bed all the year round, and the burden of family life was borne by his mother.
The meager income earned by my mother's part-time job barely covers the basic expenses of this family. I thought life would move forward slowly in difficulties, but the arrival of Wei Yongkang made my mother see hope.
It is said that "the book has its own golden house", and women who have suffered too much hope that their children can be admitted to famous schools, thus changing the fate of their families. Therefore, she began to teach literacy when her son was over one year old, and Wei Yongkang gradually became interested in learning.
At the age of two, you can know more than 2,000 Chinese characters, far exceeding the cognitive level of normal children. Listening to the villagers' praise for Xiao Yongkang, my mother was very happy. In order to cultivate a dragon and phoenix in the crowd, she made a decision to let her children learn in advance.
Wei Yongkang is very clever. Under the supervision of his mother, he completed all the primary school courses at the age of five. When the villagers see it, they will say from the heart-this child must have a future when he grows up!
It is this sentence that not only filled Wei Yongkang's mother with pride, but also raised her endless expectations for her son.
Soon, Wei Yongkang entered a local ordinary primary school. In the eyes of teachers, he is a good boy, but he never plays with other children.
Changing grades and classes frequently makes it difficult for young children to make friends. Fortunately, at any stage, he showed his mastery of knowledge, which made his mother very satisfied.
Wei Yongkang entered the county key junior high school at the age of 8. In order to let him devote himself to his study, his mother accompanied him to take care of everything, even the "small things" such as dressing and eating should be done for him.
In middle school, Wei Yongkang still showed extraordinary learning ability, but even the top students in the class always came first. The young student is also very stiff in the peer circle.
He doesn't know how to communicate with people actively, and he doesn't know what topics people like. Before long, his relationship with his classmates became more and more dull, and people became more and more introverted, so that he wouldn't say a few words in the classroom all day. In the conversation of classmates, Wei Yongkang has almost nothing but cleverness.
Nothing in life will "occupy" his time, so Wei Yongkang regards learning as his only goal and comfort. Every time he does well in the exam, he always gets some corresponding rewards.
In this way, the young children walked all the way to the local key high schools and became "Chinese prodigies" praised by everyone.
Genius can't take care of itself.
Learning in senior high school is not as easy as before, which not only adds new difficult subjects, but also compresses students' time and energy. But for Wei Yongkang, these are not difficult, because in his eyes, it seems that there is nothing but learning.
Who doesn't like a student who listens carefully in class, finishes his homework ahead of time after class, and still ranks among the best in every exam? The head teacher is very optimistic about Wei Yongkang, hoping that he can share his learning experience and feelings with his classmates. But when the shy child stood on the platform, he obviously became timid. Unable to say a word, he finally bowed his head and returned to his seat.
In this way, high school time was spent in advanced placement. One morning before the college entrance examination, Wei Yongkang was awakened from her sleep, dressed, washed her face, brushed her teeth and ate with the help of her mother, and then came to the examination room.
/kloc-at the age of 0/3, he seemed to be submerged in the crowd in an instant, but on the day when the college entrance examination results were released, this humble teenager made a blockbuster, entered Xiangtan University with an excellent score of 606 and became the youngest college student in Hunan Province.
At that time, the media rushed to interview, hoping to learn the secret of his study from Wei Yongkang. But when the reporter saw his mother taking care of all the scenes alone, they couldn't help but worry, can such a student really be independent?
However, in the eyes of Wei Yongkang's mother, her son is the cleverest. As long as he concentrates on his studies, he will certainly achieve something in the future. As for eating, living, dealing with people and interpersonal relationships, there is no need to worry about these issues, because when the children grow up, they will naturally learn. However, the later facts gave this confident woman a blow.
Before going to college, Wei Yongkang was not completely divorced from her mother's care. Because of his young age, the school specially approved him to go to school with his mother and provide her with a one-bedroom and one-bedroom accommodation environment. Her mother can also do odd jobs at school to earn money.
Under the supervision of his mother, Wei Yongkang continued to create learning myths. Not only does she rank well in every exam, but she often gets scholarships. It was not until four years passed smoothly that he received an invitation from the Institute of High Energy Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. At this time, the teenager is only 17 years old.
May also be a kind of late rebellious mood to find you, at this time of Wei Yongkang how also don't want to accompany her mother. He embarked on a journey to study in Beijing alone.
But he can't take care of himself for a long time and can't arrange his own study and life. In winter, he walks in Tiananmen Square in light clothes and slippers. Only when others look at monsters will he be surprised.
The frustrated "loser" found the true meaning of life.
In August 2003, Wei Yongkang, a graduate student, was dismissed from the college because his knowledge structure could not adapt to the research mode of the institute, and there was too little communication with his tutor, and no one was found to guide his graduation thesis.
Coupled with his inability to take care of himself in his personal life, he became a student repatriated by the school.
When the news came back to the village, Wei Yongkang's mother immediately felt at a loss. After repeatedly crying that her son didn't live up to expectations and didn't know how to cherish good opportunities, she also said that this was a child who humiliated his family.
Recalling that when I was a child, I was always confined to reading at home, unable to go out to play with my classmates, and my peers around me gradually alienated, Wei Yongkang began to give him "weird" advice, and he quarreled with his mother and even got angry.
Once a genius, now life is retarded. Wei Yongkang experienced ridicule from people around him. He couldn't stand it anymore. He rushed out of the house with 500 yuan and was taken home by the police after wandering 16 cities.
Looking at some strange sons at that time, the mother seemed to realize it, and she began to realize the failed role she played in the child's life.
After calming down, she was in great pain and began to teach her son to do housework. She welcomes her former classmates to play at home and teach her children how to take care of themselves.
But even so, Wei Yongkang dropped out of school. His past lives has become a typical example of family education and exam-oriented education. Even though he is gradually "mature" now, he has missed the best opportunity to grow up.
Now this once-hyped "prodigy" Wei Yongkang is married and has children. But he always wanted to be a scientist, so he picked up books and became a graduate student majoring in biophysics at Beijing University of Technology in early 2009. After graduation, he worked in a space agency.
202 1, 1 1, Wei Yongkang's wife He Bi announced the news of her husband's death in her personal account. This man who changed from a child prodigy to an "ordinary man" has long understood the true meaning of life.
After work, he will cook and do housework with his wife and take his children to the park to play. It didn't take him long to wander in a happy life, and at the age of 38, he hastily settled his life.
The road to education is always long and unknown. Wei Yongkang's student days were full of surprises and changes, but later he integrated into the society and returned to life. He must be happy and full.
I hope his wife can find a way to educate her children and get out of the pain as soon as possible.