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The gap actually began to appear from the moment the college entrance examination ended!
Even if you cross the wooden bridge of the college entrance examination, there will still be a gap between people, because the university is divided into grade three, grade six and grade nine, but this gap can be gradually narrowed through university study! If you are unfortunate enough to fall into the water, you can reach the other side of life in other ways to reduce the gap in life! Among them, learning a high-paying popular technology and striving to improve yourself is a way!
The real time to reflect the gap is three years after graduation from college. During this period, some people chose the right direction of life and worked hard. Three years later, he has a house, a car and a wife. Some people are confused and at a loss when they graduate Doing a job I don't like, I never want to make any changes in the past. Three years later, I have nothing but myself. Others try to change in confusion. They were confused, looked for it, thought about giving up, but finally chose to stick to it. Three years later, they found their own direction in life!
This society is cruel, but also tolerant. The cruel thing is that colleges and universities are divided into three or six grades, and enterprises choose fresh graduates, especially top students from prestigious schools; However, this society is also tolerant. On the threshold of three years, some enterprises pay more attention to your ability, especially those in the Internet industry. They are willing to give you an opportunity not to be a graduate of a famous school, and an equal opportunity with a famous school student!
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Three years after graduating from college, someone started a company and bought a Mercedes-Benz. Some people are still fighting for houses and cars; There are still a few people who even live on the support of their parents.
Sometimes, we may feel: Why is there such a big gap between ourselves and others? But what's the point of feeling? Can emotions change your predicament? Can emotions narrow the gap between oneself and others? Can you have everything overnight with feelings?
Seriously analyze the efforts of others, think about your own life, not blindly follow, and work quietly for your own goals on your own life path. After graduation, many people go to work every day, that is, chasing plays. It seems that I am busy every day, but I don't know what I am busy with.
When others are reading, you are chasing the drama; When others are exercising, you are chasing the drama; While others are studying IT technology and improving their abilities in Chongqing University Town, Beida Jade Bird, you are still following the drama. ......
In this way, other people's knowledge reserves are getting richer and richer, and they can talk and laugh with different people; Other people's bodies are getting better and better, even with six abdominal muscles; Other people's work ability is more and more outstanding, and they have been appreciated by the boss, and there are opportunities for promotion and salary increase!
However, you are still you, just like three years ago, even worse than three years ago. Three years ago, your health was not so bad; Three years ago, your dark circles were not so thick; Three years ago, you were more engaged and motivated in your work!
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The most terrible thing is that you have nothing, but you live with peace of mind. You are used to this kind of life, and you don't think there is anything wrong with yourself. Sometimes, due to the growing gap between you and your classmates, you will try to change and work hard, but the next second, you will comfort yourself: in fact, he is nothing!
In the past three years, your salary has not kept up with the rise of house prices, but your salary has not kept up with your consumption. You work every day, but every month, you still have no money. The only things you've increased are age and crow's feet on your face …
Beida Jade Bird Chongqing University City Campus wants to say that you can go on like this or take it for granted. But one day, others have a house and a car and realize economic freedom, but you have to drag your middle-aged body and be forced to struggle. Will you regret your comfort at that time?
When you seriously think about the gap between you and others, I hope you can think about who you are. How should you be responsible for your life?
You can have nothing because you are still young; You can be confused, because most people's youth is confused; But you can't be comfortable, and you can't take comfort for granted. If you don't know what you want to do, try to find the answer from the book, try to see what the excellent people around you are doing, and try to add some points to your life …