When educating children, should we focus on grades or study habits?

Parenting has always been a topic of special concern to prospective parents. Even many parents don't know how to raise their children before they go to school, but stick to their own ideas. Many parents will struggle with learning. When re-educating children, should we pay attention to their grades or the formation of study habits? In fact, in my opinion, for children's learning and education, we can pay attention to grades, but we should pay more attention to study habits.

Develop good study habits, everything is based on the traditional exam-oriented education in the past? Achievement is king? Many parents only pay attention to their children's main course results, which stifles their hobbies. Many teachers only pay attention to the test sites that are difficult to teach, ignoring the all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. It didn't change gradually until later, but the direction of education has become more and more strange in recent years, although parents no longer? Die? Children's grades, instead? Professional development? Arrange all kinds of extra-long classes for children. Whether children are interested or not, they should arrange piano, calligraphy and dance classes. Not only that, but also ask them to take the exam and make textual research, which is euphemistically called: let children have a broader development path and more choices in the future. But he made the mistake of overcorrection. Achievement is not the only thing, but the growth of children is the first. For educating children, it is more rewarding to let them develop good study habits than to overemphasize grades and arrange a bunch of long classes. Good study habits are not only of great help to children's study career, but also have a great positive effect on children's going to society and entering the workplace in the future. Good study habits can enable children to accept new knowledge and master new methods according to their own habits, without being impatient or headless.

Cultivating good study habits can shape children's stability, and it is also very important to cultivate children's personality and attitude. In the process of educating children, parents' behavior habits, tone and attitude have a great influence on children. Parents as children? The first teacher? You should lead by example, don't overemphasize your grades, don't be impatient and don't complain. It is children who analyze and solve problems together, so that children can naturally form a stable, calm, serious and meticulous attitude under the influence of their parents, and do things or learn knowledge slowly and steadily without impatience. After a long time, the child's character will not be uncertain and change. In the future, he will face strangers calmly and solve all his troubles calmly.

Therefore, in my opinion, educating children should pay more attention to the cultivation of study habits.