How to casually ask each other's birthday on the phone? Ask social experts to tell you that there are two situations: knowing and not knowing.

1, I know: let's talk casually first, about a friend's birthday. I don't know what gift to give (or which is better, a, b, c, etc.) ). Ask the other person to give me an idea, and then naturally ask the other person's birthday date (but don't rush to say that you want to send a TA gift, lest the other person be embarrassed not to tell you).

2. I don't know: it's hard. After all, birthdays belong to one's privacy. Strangers, especially those with a strong sense of prevention, will not tell you easily. Even if they tell you, it may be perfunctory. So the step is to turn the unknown into the known first, and then ask with reference to the known. If everyone is in the same circle (for example, different departments of the same company), say that you are applying for a benefit, you can send birthday gifts to everyone, and you need to provide your birthday date and so on. )