First, live for others.
I saw the story of a netizen in the answer area, saying that she entered the current organization because of her parents. She endured three years in an environment she didn't like, and didn't dare to resign, even if she applied for a resume interview.
To tell the truth, this is the job your parents chose for you. You live the life they expect, and you live for him. Why dare not resign?
Parents' ideas are superior to their own.
Not having one's own ideas or being unable to stick to one's own ideas.
I don't have enough hard-working ability, otherwise I wouldn't rely on my parents to find a job.
People should live for themselves all their lives and do what they want to do within their ability, instead of living the life their parents expect.
If you want to get out, you must have the ability first, otherwise you can't get rid of your dependence on your parents, and you will only be defeated by the reality and cruelty of society. During working in a public institution, you can find something you are interested in to do, to study, to improve your work skills, to prepare for choosing your favorite job in the future, and to give yourself the ability to choose.
Second, there is no choice.
Some people are suitable for their current jobs in terms of their current abilities and resources, and there is no other choice.
How to add more choices to yourself?
Know what you want. What are you interested in and what can you learn?
Learn new knowledge in a planned way to prepare for the transformation;
Participate in activities in your favorite industry and get to know people in the circle.
There used to be colleagues in the company, and she especially hates the current accounting work. She also hates going to work. She is not interested in working in other departments of the company, but she is afraid to quit, because this job can also bring him a stable income. She is actually very interested in flower arrangement, but the cost of her own flower shop is too high, so she used her spare time to learn flower arrangement and became an amateur flower arrangement teacher. Later, with the in-depth study, her works were liked by more people, and the income of amateur flower arranging far exceeded that of accountants, so she resigned as a full-time flower arranging teacher.
Third, I don't want to choose.
Some people have a good income in their current jobs, and even if they change careers, they can't get the same income and comfortable jobs, so he is determined not to resign. Anyway, life is not just work, but also the day after work.
A friend is a teacher in a university. In fact, she hates her job, but it is a job within the system and her income is high in small cities. Besides, she still has a lot of free free time to read books or take care of her family, so she will stick to it.
There is always a lot of helplessness at work, so we should make adjustments according to our own situation and wishes. Since I dare not resign, there must be a reason.
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