Really put the middle-aged man that kind of helplessness and unbearable, crushed with a sad tone, thrown into the reader's heart.
The same is true of I am Yu Huanshui.
Speaking of which, the noon sun is really strong. The story of a middle-aged man who suffered misfortune in love, life, career, health, economy and other aspects, and then countered, how to get 50 episodes, then edit them later, and make up the numbers in the early review, 60 episodes is not a problem. The noon sun is fine, so the episode 12 condensed a hard life and showed us a middle-aged man.
0 1 Middle-aged men are gradually becoming the best "bullying" species. "The grass looks close, but there is nothing" because they are inside. From a bystander's point of view, it is not difficult to understand why middle-aged men are so bullied.
Facing the family, there are old people to take care of, children to raise, mortgages to pay back, and car loans to pay back. The father lived on the money plundered from his son, and he didn't care about Huanshui until he had no money. The wife thinks that her husband is worthless, her eyes are full of doubts and disdain, and she is ready to run away or even prepare for the next home in advance. The son also chose his mother between his parents and didn't even look back when he left.
I soak Lycium barbarum in a thermos cup every day, and my hair is still dripping. While bearing the burden of life, there is nowhere to tell, while being labeled as "greasy", it is impossible to refute.
Facing the career, the boss dug a hole to watch him jump in, and the supervisor was dissatisfied with him everywhere. Others took away two boxes of gift boxes during the Mid-Autumn Festival, but he was publicly punished and fined to clean the toilet. It's really embarrassing. His apprentice used to respect him very much and began to laugh at him after the spring breeze, ignoring him.
In the face of friends, the man who kept telling his brother that he owed money and didn't pay it back, he still felt justified. "This money is nothing to me. When will I pay you back?"
Even when I met my neighbors in the elevator, I was scolded and looked down upon. After the car accident, the reporters didn't want him to survive because they thought the news would be boring.
A middle-aged man found that his wife, parents, colleagues and brothers were all superficial and no one really cared about him. After living for half his life, he realized that no one had ever been firm in himself. Behind this mask, which is always full of fatigue, is a desperate face that can bear to the limit.
He finally had enough of this inhuman life, put away his timid face and showed his true side. The boss oppressed him, he went back, his neighbors scolded him, and he smashed the venue. The next story is an absurd middle-aged counterattack.
The sadder a person is, the more he needs comedy, the role full of self-abuse and the funny way of self-abuse Although it adds a certain drama, it still comes from life, which makes people feel bitter after laughing at the absurdity. This is what lies behind the reality. There is no detour, no human feelings, no hypocrisy and no hypocrisy to tell you. Middle-aged people are like this and should be like this.
Mr. Liu Zhenyun once said: The top of tragedy is comedy. However, the comedy of middle-aged people is still a tragedy in the end. Yu Huanshui's every effort and persistence after deciding to counterattack became a joke, which is also the funniest part of the play, but when you think about it, it is also the most tearful part.
What caused Yu Huanshui's difficult situation? Wife cheating, leader cheating, colleagues mocking, neighbors provoking, brothers alienating. In just four episodes, all the misfortunes in life were met by Yu Huanshui.
He deserved it? Did he resign? Or does he lack the leading role aura?
I think Yu Huanshui's personality and way of doing things led to his present situation.
He is timid and forbearing.
In the face of excessive criticism and abuse from the leaders, I chose to let go. Even if revenge is not satisfactory, I just thought about it in my mind and finally walked out of the leadership office with humiliation. My son was lectured at school, but Yu Huanshui asked him to pretend not to hear and study hard.
In dealing with things, I don't know how to be flexible or appreciate.
I entered the boss's hotel room by mistake and interrupted their private conversation. Not only did I not choose to leave wisely, but I also apologized to the leader with a beer. This is because my emotional intelligence is too low and I don't understand officialdom.
In this family, Nuo Nuo is the only one who has no sense of responsibility, and he won't make up lies by mouth.
When Yu Huanshui made breakfast for his son, his son asked for milk. He made an excuse for himself because he forgot to buy milk for his family and said, "Drinking porridge is good for his stomach." When his wife came to criticize him, he made up a lie and said that the milk in the supermarket was sold out, and others were not stupid. Milk is a necessity, how can the supermarket be out of stock? This lame lie has no power except to reduce credibility.
Save face, but still hit your face and be fat.
I bought red wine for my father-in-law, and he found that it was only 70 yuan. Is it still my own face?
But even so, we still feel sorry for the role, because those beautiful faces, weakness and entanglement are not the reflection of life, but the self you don't want to admit.
We can't avoid the cruelty of life, but at least we can be prepared for it. Sometimes life is absurd.
This is also the reason why this drama can make people watch. Can't say how perfect and amazing it is, but it does capture people's voices and get a * * * voice.
Middle-aged people know that the story of Yu Huanshui is the dream of middle-aged people. People live here, there is no young impulse, no wasted time, no dream of persistent struggle, no tough body, only compromise, coveting comfort and resignation. So it is basically impossible to fight back. It is impossible for a beautiful woman like Xin Wei to like herself. It is impossible for the boss to kneel in front of her, and it is even more impossible for a beautiful wife like Gao Lu to return.
Life is so bad that middle-aged people are not allowed to fight back. The saddest thing is to come back to reality after dreaming. After drinking fake maotai, you still have to face it after waking up.
However, this drama still has positive energy, and we can also see the bright spots in middle-aged men. They also have dignity and valuable qualities, and they have invincible resilience in the face of difficulties. We can't avoid the cruelty of life, but at least we can be prepared to face life.
Just like Yu Huanshui, he was timid in the early stage and wanted to rise in the later stage and bid farewell to his bad self in the past.
Of course, it is also possible to fall down again and repeat the same mistakes. At least look at the ending in the novel. After some tossing, it seems that life is not as good as before.
But life is so bad. How bad can it be? Sometimes it's fun to throw it around
Because you have to breathe when you are alive.
There is never a perfect life in this world, and there are always setbacks and disappointments. We may fall or collapse, but we should also think of this. We were once young, and when we were young, we were full of fighting spirit and worked hard for life. Don't let yourself degenerate into a depressed and boring old man.
In other words, it is precisely because middle-aged life has always been like this that it is good to muddle along, so there is such a domestic drama about the counterattack of middle-aged people, and it may even give Yu Huanshui a bright ending.
Even in middle age, you will never be like a duck to water.
It only took 12 episodes to shoot such a story, and the midday sun on the axis finally burst those domestic foot-binding cloths. Whether it explodes or not, this is worth it.