"Daughter, your husband's family demolished two suites and gave your brother a set." What should I do with her family's request?

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"Daughter, your husband's family got two suites and gave your brother a set. They have no place to live while working in the city. " Liu Yawei frowned at his mother's words.

Liu Ya and Jiang Tao have been married for six years, and now they are the mother of two children. Years ago, my mother-in-law living in the suburbs caught up with the demolition and was assigned to two suites. Mother-in-law is going to keep one for her own living, and the other set of real estate license is written with the names of Jiang Tao and Liu Ya.

But Liu Ya's mother heard that Liu Ya's mother-in-law had two suites, her son worked in the city and a family of five lived in a rented house. She thought that her mother had only one son, and both Liu Ya and Jiang Tao had their own houses, so she made up her mind to have her daughter's mother-in-law's house. So she said this to her daughter.

Liu Ya has been married to Jiang Tao for so many years, and she gets along well with her mother-in-law. My father-in-law died early, and my mother-in-law worked so hard to bring up Jiang Tao for so many years and married him a daughter-in-law. When Liu Ya and Jiang Tao got married, her mother-in-law bought them a flat in the city and paid a down payment.

After all, the mother-in-law is a woman. She not only raised Jiang Tao by herself, but also bought him a house and started a family. When Liu Ya gave birth to twin children, her mother-in-law quit her job to take care of herself and her children. Just for this, Liu Ya is grateful to her mother-in-law.

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However, her mother's family is different. Her mother only has sons and grandchildren in her heart. When she gave birth to her child, her mother just took a quick look at the hospital and left.

Liu Ya has a brother, who is married and has two sons. The mother helps her son to take care of his grandchildren all the year round, and seldom asks about Liu Ya's two children. Liu Ya has no problem with her mother's love for her brother, but she always says that her daughter will turn to her family. No matter what difficulties she encountered at home, Liu Ya was her first thought. Liu Ya is soft-hearted and always pays for things according to her mother's wishes. Even my brother's child has a cold and fever, and his mother asks her to send money. Liu Ya's eldest nephew celebrated his tenth birthday, and her mother forced her to pay 10,000 yuan.

When my brother got married, my mother gave my sister-in-law all the money at home. Liu Ya's mother-in-law gave her 80 thousand yuan as a bride price, and her mother also gave it all to her sister-in-law, only giving her four quilts and getting married. For this matter, Liu Ya felt a little wronged. Fortunately, her husband and mother-in-law are relatively open-minded people, and they didn't embarrass Liu Ya.

Since Liu Ya's brother got married, her mother has lived with them. She and Liu Ya's sister-in-law often quarrel, but Liu Ya's mother loves her son and family, buys food, cooks and washes clothes, and she does all the hard work.

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In fact, Liu Ya's own life is not too rich. She and her husband are just ordinary workers. Not only do they have to pay their mortgage every month, but their family of four also have to live, and their days are barely passable.

Years ago, my mother knew that Liu Ya's mother-in-law was assigned to two demolition houses, and her hand was longer. She said directly to Liu Ya, "You already have a house, but your brother's family is still renting a house for your brother."

Hearing this, Liu Ya's scalp became numb, and after a pause, he said to his mother, "Mom, I have married off. This house belongs to my mother-in-law. Definitely not for my brother. Besides, my mother-in-law will not agree. "

Hearing this, Liu Ya's mother said to her, "Daughter, you are married to the city with better conditions than your brother. Your brother is a migrant worker. Give him a hand. Don't forget, your mother's family is your eternal dependence. "

Liu Ya thought her mother was simply unreasonable, so she simply pointed at her mother and said, "Mom, I'm sorry, the house is my mother-in-law's property, so I can't make decisions. Besides, even if I could be the host, I wouldn't give my brother the house. I can still make it clear. " Liu Ya felt that her mother had gone too far, and the palms of her hands were covered with meat, but her mother only had her brother in her heart. Liu Ya think about it, I feel sad.

Emotional conclusion:

Many women always distinguish right from wrong in front of the interests of their parents and family. Some women, under the temptation of their parents, do not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of small families to help their parents. As everyone knows, this is undoubtedly a hidden danger for his marriage. Lighter people will hurt the feelings of husband and wife, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious. In severe cases, the husband and wife will be abandoned, leading to divorce.

Fortunately, Liu Ya can see clearly that she is not confused about the house at all. Mother asked Liu Ya to sacrifice the interests of her husband's family for her son. For this unreasonable mother, Liu Ya can only sternly refuse. I hope Liu Ya's mother can understand her daughter. She is human.