What gift should I buy for the family of the deceased? Generally, relatives and friends send incense, candles, firecrackers, paper money and cloth, while son-in-law and family members prepare pig heads and geese as sacrifices in addition to incense and paper. Undertaker came, and some even cried and sang about the friendly relationship with the deceased, telling the deceased how to bless him and so on. Cooked pig's head and goose are two pictures, and then one of them will be sacrificed to the spirit, and then sacrificed in turn from the previous generation to the next. All the descendants of the deceased knelt before the spirit and bowed and wept bitterly. Funerals in Ningbo are unique, and sacrifices are also very interesting. There is a pipa made of ham in front of the coffin, with a cooked pig's head, cooked pig's lung and liver as the body, made of Jiang Taigong, a white owl decorated with ribbons, a white elephant made of cooked pig's belly and a phoenix made of cooked chicken. The sad coffin is like a small food technology exhibition, which is a good wish for the dead.
In Zhejiang, undertaker will set up a mourning drum at the gate. Undertaker beat gongs and drums twice as soon as he entered the door, and his relatives wailed when they heard the drums. The mourners bowed to the portrait of the dead and wept bitterly. In some places, only a bronze chime is placed on the coffin, and someone is responsible for knocking. Every once in a while, it is said that bronze bells ring and the dead ends flash. The soul can move forward by light, but it can't be knocked repeatedly, otherwise the dead will trip in a hurry. In the mourning hall, the widows wept bitterly and filled the whole mourning hall. From beginning to end, the dutiful son and daughter-in-law were dressed in linen, and Dai Xiao knelt beside the coffin to accompany the sacrifice. Those who come to mourn should bow down to the dead in the sound of mourning. As the saying goes, "Death is the first priority", so besides the elders who don't kneel, even the peers should bow down.
At the beginning of the funeral, the fireworks rang out and the etiquette procedure was very particular. The mourners are all dressed in plain clothes. According to the order of intimacy and inferiority, the family gathers together, and the family sacrifices first, and the foreign guests sacrifice later. They all bow down. The elders also set up a tribute student to stand in the east with a bunch of incense. In addition, a tribute student was established in the west. Finally, firecrackers should be set off to mark the end of the worship ceremony. In today's cities, the mourning ceremony has been greatly simplified, mainly the farewell of the body and the holding of a memorial service. The people who came to pay their respects were dressed in plain clothes, white flowers and black gauze. They bowed to the body in a mournful voice, and then saluted it around the body. Mourners can say some brief words of comfort to the main relatives of the deceased, such as? Please take care, okay? 、? I'm sorry for your loss? 、? Pay attention to your health? And so on, comfort the bereavement and take care of yourself.
When attending a memorial service, you can send wreaths and elegiac couplets to show your memory and mourning. At the memorial service, the expression should be serious and the color of clothes should be important.
Wear black or dark colors, don't wear heavy makeup, dress elegantly and solemnly, and don't wear accessories.
If you can't mourn in person, if you are far away, write or call to mourn.
When mourning or attending a memorial service, we should also comfort the families of the deceased and persuade them to feel sorry for their losses and take care of themselves. If you are close relatives and friends, you should help with some specific things and visit the families of the deceased on holidays.
If you are visiting the relatives of the deceased, 1, all things must come to an end. Although grandpa left him, he left a lot of things and lived in his heart forever.
2. Do your best! Listen to destiny! Everything has a beginning and an end after all! Suiyuan (formerly a province in northern China)
Relatives will watch you from the sky. Stay with you. Relatives are always by your side. You just can't see him.
4, birth and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; No one has died since ancient times, as long as they live in my heart.
He has gone to other places to finish the task, so we should bless him. Because he is in close contact with nature. Just be happy every day.
6. The dead are gone, and the living regret their loss. Please remember that his teachings and love will always be with you, and the kindness of his smile will always appear in your mind; In order to care for your relatives and friends, please live more actively and happily, let him smile proudly in heaven and squint at your kind eyes!
7. I feel sorry for your loss. People who leave don't want you to be unhappy.
8. The living are excited and the dead rest in peace.
9, relatives or sadness, others have also sung.
10, don't be too sad about the death of your loved ones. In heaven, he won't like you so depressed. Cheer up and work hard for the people you love.
1 1. Your relatives only go where you can't see, but they can see you. They don't want you to feel sad because of them. Let them know that you are a strong person and won't let them down.
12, dear, maybe you will regret the past and feel sad because of the loss, but please learn to be strong when you are most sad.
14, relatives will watch you from the sky. Stay with you. Relatives are always by your side. You just can't see him.
15, God is fair to everyone. When you lose something, you gain something valuable. Everyone should have a grateful heart.
16, life is like this. Wanting to have it but not getting it may make people give up on themselves.
17, if you really lose, you must be stronger. Let bygones be bygones. The past is irreversible. Let's be strong. Losing one person, at least others, won't make us feel lonely!
18, the weather is unpredictable, who wants to think about these things? Losing the person who used to live happily together every day, how can this not make people sad, but what can we do? I think he will be sad to see you in heaven without eating.
19, I'm sorry for your loss. By the way, don't be too sad. Take care of yourself.
20. Reward the elderly with practical actions. Only by working hard can we live up to his spirit in heaven.
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