But even for love, it is not acceptable to any mother-in-law. When you meet a miserable mother-in-law, you should seriously consider whether the marriage will continue.
In marriage, for those harsh and unreasonable mother-in-law, even if you do your best, you will still be accused and picky. Sometimes, your kindness may not be tolerated by the other party.
The encounter between Woody Sakura and A Chao is comparable to an idol drama. Woody Sakura got off work one day, which happened to be rainy. She didn't bring an umbrella, and she was soaked to the skin. Chao appeared beside her like a superhero, sheltering her from the wind and rain.
The appearance of Achao attracted Woody Sakura, who fell in love with Achao at first sight. I don't know if it was fate or intentional. Only after they hit an umbrella for the first time, Woody Sakura saw Chao almost every day.
Later, I learned that they worked in the same building, met more often, and they became more and more familiar. Woody Sakura boldly told Achao that she would be rejected, but Achao was also interested in her.
The IQ of men and women in love may be covered by love. Woody Sakura is obsessed with Ah Chao's looks every day, so that when they talked about love for nearly a year, Ah Chao proposed to get married, and Woody Sakura quickly agreed.
Married life makes woody cherry miserable. The condition of Chao's family is very bad. They live with their mother-in-law, who is still a tough guy.
Woody Sakura doesn't dare to rest when she comes home from work every day. She was scolded by her mother-in-law In life, my mother-in-law always tells me what to do with woody cherry blossoms. No matter how well she does, she is still a daughter-in-law who can't do anything well in her eyes.
In the face of her mother-in-law's embarrassment, Woody Sakura is very wronged. She complained to her husband, but Chao said it was her mother, asking Muyingsakura to bear with her. Woody sakura was helpless and had to endure it silently.
When she was washing clothes, her mother-in-law said that she put too much washing powder. When cooking, my mother-in-law said there was too much oil and too much salt. In short, no matter what the daughter-in-law does, she can't please her mother-in-law.
The most exasperating thing is that after her son was born, her mother-in-law was unwilling to help Woody Sakura with her children. KINOMOTO SAKURA couldn't work, so she had to quit her job and take care of the baby at home. This makes her mother-in-law dissatisfied and finds fault with her daughter-in-law everywhere.
Mother-in-law said that Woody Sakura always knew that she couldn't earn a penny with her children at home and had to rely on her own son to support her. Woody Sakura said she went out to work. Who will take care of these children? Mother-in-law told her to send it back to her parents and bring it to her mother.
KINOMOTO SAKURA's family doesn't allow her mother to help with the children at all. A child in my brother's family needs the care of Muyingsakura's mother, and Muyingsakura's grandmother also lives in her house and needs the care of her mother.
Woody Sakura said that her mother-in-law couldn't help her with her children, but her mother-in-law said indifferently that she couldn't. Think about it. Is this what a mother-in-law should say? Forget it if you don't help with the children, and accuse your daughter-in-law of not going to work. She said she couldn't take the children to work. When I became a grandmother, I didn't even talk about my grandchildren. You also suggested that your daughter-in-law give her children to her parents.
The mother-in-law has nothing to do all day, so she has to find fault with her daughter-in-law, not for her daughter-in-law, but also for her son, so that her daughter-in-law can go out to work. Daughter-in-law's extra income not only lightens her son's burden, but also her mother-in-law can't think of this, and she only knows to blame her daughter-in-law blindly.
Mother-in-law doesn't help to look after the children, while Woody Sakura takes care of the children, she is anxious, and her husband's income just maintains the livelihood of the whole family. Therefore, their plan to buy a house is unknown.
Not only is woody cherry under great pressure, but so is her husband. Slowly, their husband and wife began to quarrel about chicken feathers. It's much noisy. Mother-in-law always blames her daughter-in-law for her son, saying that Woody Sakura can't make money and dares to quarrel with her son.
Woody Sakura doesn't want to argue with her mother-in-law, and she knows that she is a troublemaker, so most of the time, she keeps her mother-in-law's blame and doesn't talk.
But the mother-in-law will never be kind to her daughter-in-law because of her concession, and she will always dislike her daughter-in-law for being too stupid and incompetent. Children have just learned to run, and it is inevitable to fall. Every time a child accidentally falls, her mother-in-law will scold Woody Sakura: "Why are you so useless? You can't take good care of a child. "
Woody Sakura has to cook and do housework, and take care of the children. It is inevitable that there will be negligence. When a child cries, her mother-in-law scolds her. Woody Sakura felt that she was on the verge of collapse. She doesn't know when she will file for divorce, and who can stand her mother-in-law's vitriol.
Once, Woody Sakura was washing clothes and her son was playing with water. The clothes are a little wet. When my mother-in-law saw it, she blamed Woody Sakura and said something ugly: "Daughter-in-law, I have never seen such a stupid woman as you."
Woody Sakura was so angry that she cried and laughed. She said, "If you think I'm stupid, then divorce me. I don't want to live with your son for a long time. "
I listened to my mother's words and didn't take woody cherry seriously. My mother-in-law agreed to divorce, and Chao also agreed to divorce. After the divorce, my son followed Woody Sakura. Although their mother and son had some difficulties at first, Woody Sakura tried her best to provide a better life for her son.
No matter how hard you work, it's better than at Chao's house. At least you don't have to wait on your mother-in-law's family, but it depends on her face. If you are not careful, you will be scolded by your mother-in-law She is free with her son, and what kind of life she wants is in her own hands.
In marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with because I met a picky mother-in-law. Why are there so many marriages, and other people's mother-in-law are quite good?
Therefore, for husband and wife and mother-in-law, happiness and misfortune in marriage mainly depend on people. As long as both sides are kind and generous people, marriage will not have so many twists and turns.
The harmony of a family depends on the relationship between husband and wife and other family members. Many mother-in-law may be conservative. As long as the son gets married, he wants to bully his daughter-in-law with his mother-in-law's shelf.
Did the daughter-in-law really make any unforgivable mistakes? No, it's because she met a mother-in-law who made much ado about nothing, so she became passive in marriage.
A kind daughter-in-law always puts filial piety first and swallows all the grievances given by her mother-in-law, but in the end, you will find that your kindness is just endless smoke.
To tell the truth, why do you have to go all the way to the dark and find yourself unhappy when you meet such a mother-in-law? When it is time to stop loss, stop loss in time, abandon the unfortunate marriage and change the stability of your life.
For a man, his wife has been wronged in marriage, so don't play dumb. When it's time to be wronged for your wife, you should stand up like a man, help your wife speak up and safeguard her rights and interests in her husband's family.
If the husband does the right thing, even if the wife is wronged occasionally, she will not care, and your marriage will get better and better.