The surname is just a symbol. Surnames first appeared to remember different people. Its existence does not mean that it will help us to be happier or lose a piece of meat. A correct view of surnames is where it can really play a role. It doesn't really matter whether you take your parents' surname or your mother's surname. Both surnames are children of mom and dad.
Surnames don't mean loving children. The mother's surname does not mean that the mother loves the child more, or that the child's surname and the father's surname do not mean that the father loves the child more. Surnames don't mean love. So, what's the difference between their surnames? Some people may think that a child with his father's surname or his mother's surname is on which side. However, these are actually children with the same blood as their father and mother.
Children may need their parents' love more than their surnames. In fact, the most sorry thing about this is the child, because what the child wants is the love of his parents, not his family name. Then, a couple who are stiff because of their surnames and a couple who are about to divorce can still give their children a healthy and complete family? Elephant trunk, this can't be done. So, why do we have to make a fuss about surnames? Isn't it more important for mom and dad to live in harmony and let their children grow up happily? Children are the focus that parents should pay attention to.
First and last names are just symbols. You can give your child a better symbol, but it doesn't mean you have to divorce for it and forget the most painful child. Children are the objects that parents should focus on. Every child's childhood is gone forever, and accompanying children to grow up can make them happier and happier.