With the formation of self-awareness, the independence of boys and girls has increased dramatically. They no longer passively obey their parents' instruction and arrangement, but are eager to see the world with their own eyes and measure right and wrong with their own standards. This change from passive to active, from dependence to independence is the only way for teenagers to grow up. Don't worry too much!
The emotional polarization of adolescent children is very prominent. They will not only be excited about a temporary success, but also depressed about a little disappointment. Their emotions are changeable, and they often have inexplicable troubles and anxieties. So there will be parents and teachers who can't understand themselves and can only talk to their peers.
Due to the continuous development of psychology, their emotional self-control ability has been greatly improved compared with childhood, and they have learned to conceal and hide their true emotions, showing the characteristics of psychological "atresia". They seldom want to talk to their parents, or even refuse their love. Some parents are confused about this. Why did my child's personality suddenly change so much? This is actually a psychological transition from immaturity to maturity. This process is long and painful for them. When the new adult world has not been established, they are uncertain about the outside world, so their hearts are full of contradictions and conflicts.
At this time, I am eager for others' understanding, but I am full of psychological "locking" contradictions.
Teenagers are the only way to grow up. Parents should guide their children patiently, listen and communicate as much as possible. Adolescent children want to be taken seriously and let them know his responsibility and importance properly. He has the ability and responsibility to share family tasks.