See if your colleagues have a good relationship with you. Don't say what you don't want to say.
If private affairs can be told to colleagues, then colleagues are not called colleagues, and colleagues are just working relationships.
Don't talk about private affairs with colleagues, talk less about business with family members, and draw a clear line. This is the basic accomplishment of being a man and also self-salvation.
We should not only hurt others, but also guard against others. When talking about your private affairs with colleagues, colleagues are likely to embellish what you say and edit it into workplace rumors, then you will lose your reputation in the workplace. It's time to avoid it.
Some people think that colleagues will always be colleagues, some people think that colleagues can also become good friends, but some people will take the initiative to talk to their colleagues about their private affairs, but they can't talk to their colleagues about their private affairs, mainly for the following reasons:
1. Although colleagues get along with each other day and night, to a certain extent, you are all competitive.
2. Let your competitors hear your family and personal affairs. How to prevent them from hacking you at a critical time?
3, the so-called heart is indispensable, these things are best told to your confidant, because they will keep your mouth shut and sort out your mood for you.
In a company, there will be competition and even opposition between colleagues. Although they are all people who participate in * * *, in fact, everyone has a "heart" in their hearts. It's impossible to say it in person. There's another one behind. This is a certain phenomenon in the workplace. If you talk too much about your personal affairs with colleagues, although colleagues will know more about themselves, it is actually not safe, just like letting go of one.
Panic if you have something on your mind! You can adopt the following suggestions:
1. If you have pets at home, when you take them out for a walk, you can tell them what you can't tell your husband and children.
Keep a diary every day, even a few words. Write down your troubles in a notebook, then use a red pen to eliminate one and cross out another. As zui's last worry is crossed out, your heart will suddenly relax.
3. Tell your troubles in front of the mirror. Generally speaking, it's all over. Many people don't communicate with their inner selves, but always borrow the external world. Actually, you are the problem.