Comet Shen in Our Marriage is a role model for most women. As a housewife, comet Shen is undoubtedly successful. As she said, when she was in charge, she never pulled her husband Sheng Jiangchuan's back and asked him to share the worries for the family. With the success of Sheng Jiangchuan's career, he began to show his sense of superiority consciously or unconsciously. Facing Sheng Jiangchuan's sense of superiority, comet Shen did not feel inferior, nor did she try her best in this marriage. Because being a housewife is her own choice, she doesn't think being a housewife is a despised thing. In her own ideological world, housewives and professional jobs are equal, but they do different things. Ideologically, comet Shen is independent. During her stay as a housewife, she waited on the boss's husband and spent her parents' money. In her own perception, housewives are inferior to others. In the spiritual world, she looks down on herself. Therefore, as a housewife, in the spiritual world, it is very rare to maintain the independence of personality and spiritual self like Shen Comet.
What can we learn from her? It can be seen from her that it is not easy for women in the workplace. When you apply for a job, you will always be asked if you are married and want to have children in the near future. Women's maternity is guaranteed by law, and maternity leave and maternity allowance are given. But in real life, most women are pregnant. Putting up with the discomfort in the late pregnancy, insisting on giving birth and going to work after maternity leave can't guarantee that you will have a place when you come back. Many companies believe that mothers with children are more concerned about their families and are considered to have less energy to work.
Balance work and family. I believe that TV series is also a hope, which can inspire women who are struggling in marriage, family and workplace life. At any time, you need to enrich yourself, overcome yourself and become a stronger self. Only if you are good enough can you overcome all kinds of grievances and embarrassment. I hope we can manage ourselves and balance work and family.
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