Discussion topic: How to set up a school psychological counseling room?

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You can put some tea cups on the coffee table, so that we can hand him a glass of water when he is emotionally unstable and then calm him down. Then the coffee table has played such a role. There are two sofas, which may be more comfortable to sit on. It's best to put some plants in the room, not too much. Some green plants may be a little angry. Generally speaking, a white wall on the wall is enough to master some time. Relatively speaking, it may be more appropriate. If you keep looking at your watch or taking notes, it seems inappropriate. Feeling is urging each other, so there is a wall clock that allows us to grasp this time with the corner of our eyes. At the same time, I think we can also hang some warm tapestries on the wall, or some wall hangings, that is, peach blossoms like landscape paintings, or something closer to students' preferences. The kind of stick willow that brings them closer: in college, we set up this style. Of course, the group consultation room may think that this is unnecessary. I think it can be flexible. I don't know that there is no such place in the setup of your primary school, that is, when students are doing group consultation, they may have a relatively large space and movable desks and chairs, so that they can be vacated when you don't need them. Or have a tatami, or some other folding mattress, that is to say, in a relatively large space, it will be more convenient for you to do relatively large activities. In fact, primary schools might as well do something lively. I think it is ok to use some cushions in the group consultation room, which can be used as cushions, backrests, or holding some prepared props in your hand. This is my understanding. Taohua: Yes, Mr. Liu Yang gave a lot of professional advice. Thank you very much, such as the function of furniture coffee table and the practical function of plant wall clock. Thank you very much. However, I have a difficulty here. First of all, I emphasize that I am a psychological teacher in middle school and junior high school, so our psychological consultation room can't meet the requirements of the university, not the material conditions or other hardware facilities, which he can't meet. As far as space is concerned, he is not very big. The school has prepared a small room, which is not very big. In terms of hardware, the school will not provide much convenience, because everyone realizes that the current mental health education is only a formality, so it is more just to cope with the examination. It can be said that if we want to grasp from reality, we must take the form, first from form to essence. I think everything goes through such a process from birth to development, so the material support of the school in this respect is not very good now, so many people should do their best from my personal ability. So for example, I can make the layout on the wall richer, and I will try my best to make the furniture clean, tidy and comfortable. In this way, I can't seem to achieve anything else. Any good suggestions? Liu Yang: I think the setting of the clinic can be relatively simple. For example, there can also be two chairs. Other hardware, such as special computers, should be provided, then students' information should be input, electronic files should be established, or professional materials should be kept, because after all, this major is confidential to visitors and students, so I think if other facilities cannot be provided, it should not cost too much to build such a clinic, because this chair and sofa can be simple or gorgeous, in fact, it doesn't need to be too gorgeous, that is to say, you can feel comfortable sitting on it: simple, as long as you can achieve your goal. Wind elf: This clinic, that is to say, there is no fixed pattern in its layout, so we need to pay attention to several principles. One is that the consulting room is best in some sunny space, and the light can be softer. Of course, don't say particularly dazzling. If it is facing the sun, it is best to have curtains and the like on the window to cover a little light, so that the indoor light is as soft as possible, but the light cannot be too dark. Pay special attention not to use this cool color too much, because like many children who come to consult, they may be a little depressed, and his feelings may aggravate his mood in this dark environment at home. Bright sunshine itself has a good effect on improving the mood of depressed children. The other is the placement of this position between you and the visitor. This may be more particular. Try to avoid this kind of face-to-face display. Generally speaking, they are used to putting a round table and then putting two chairs on both sides, with an angle. In this way, it is to avoid eye contact between visitors and you, thus avoiding visitors' nervousness and embarrassment. In fact, we will be nervous and embarrassed, which will also facilitate our observation of visitors. Because the direction of children's eyes is more meaningful from a psychological point of view, then, for example, stick some paintings on the wall, such as those with strong perspective, fresh colors and comfort. In other words, when a child talks to you about key issues that he doesn't want to talk about, he may turn his attention to the painting, and then you will know. In addition, this room had better put some green plants. To make the room a little angry, you can go online and look at some websites of some psychological counseling centers. There will be some pictures of the layout of the counseling room, which is actually a reference for us to decorate the counseling room. Of course, we are dealing with this middle school student. I wonder if your school is using your existing conditions to decorate this consulting room, is that right? Feng Xian: Yes, those are actually quite good, but try not to be too serious and don't post them in the consulting room, because the less literal things in the consulting room, the better. You can put them in this position in front of the clinic. If a student comes to see you, he sits outside for a while, for example, there is a child in the consulting room and a student is waiting outside. He may take a look at this proverb while waiting. It will be helpful to him, but don't write too much in the consulting room, because the main emphasis of the consulting room is your interaction with students. If you draw too many words, it will inevitably interfere with the communication between the two of you. Generally speaking, the clinic is as simple as possible, clean and tidy, and the less miscellaneous things, the better. For example, we have the simplest layout of the clinic, two chairs, a table, a potted flower and a picture. We joked that it's enough for you to arrange so much, and the paper towels that Teacher Yang Qingqing said just now are very important. If the student talks about some pain and he wants to cry, then when you don't have a tissue at hand, at this time, it means that his feelings will be pressed back. If he can't vent, the problem can't be solved, and then he handed a cup of warm water. These little things, like the tissue box on our desk, will be cooked during our consultation. You will know when this visitor wants to cry. You don't need to talk when he wants to cry. Just push this tissue box in front of him, and he will cry when he picks it up. This problem will be solved at once. This is really amazing sometimes. Of course, it may be difficult to consult at school. Then I don't know whether you were a teacher in this school or a consultant in another school. Taohua: I used to be a counselor in this school. Peach blossom: This is basically ok. Students basically trust me. Wind Fairy: Well, this is very good, really good. How long have you worked in the school? Peach Blossom: This psychological counseling work is about less than 7 years, a little more than 6 years, and then there are other part-time jobs now. So if you can do the best job, try to do it well, even if it is limited to form, and make it beautiful. Wind elf: Actually, it should be very good. Of course, this student's psychological counseling will be more difficult, because first, the psychological problems of junior high school children are actually more complicated and changeable, and everyone knows how to do the best. When he grows up, his mind has settled down, and there will be no big fluctuations in his mind. So for a child, sometimes if you ask him something, he may not be clear, maybe he is just a little upset, which he felt during adolescence. But as for where this irritability comes from, sometimes he can't say clearly, so it's really difficult for us adults to help him understand. And many times, we will face some thorny problems of children's psychological problems. Maybe your problem is serious, but he has a lot of family background and school background, but in this case, we should continue to encourage him to work hard to overcome it and try to keep him focused on his studies. After all, he is not as an adult as we are, and I am psychologically troubled that I don't have much work and do little. I use this time to reflect on myself and adjust my physical and mental state. Adults actually have this condition, and children actually feel more unlucky than adults in this respect. In other words, he doesn't have this condition and this opportunity. Sometimes he is really miserable, but he can only bite his teeth. I told my middle school students that your purpose is actually to study. No matter how painful the heart is, it can only learn, so in fact, their pressure is also. Taohua: Just now, the two teachers spoke very well and solved it very well. Dream boat: Yes, we welcome you very much, so it will be a lot of inspiration and knowledge to organize such a team and communicate with each other with everyone's strength. If we may not feel that much for a long time, then it is a great gain for us to focus on it. First of all, I am glad that some consultants and teachers in our middle and primary schools can stick to this position. It is indeed an important position, but I hope you can stick to it. Although our conditions are not very good, it seems that many schools are aware of this now, which is good for both the school and themselves, so I hope you can be a full-time psychological teacher, and of course you should be promoted to the same teachers for your development. Because there is a gap in the treatment of anyone, it will affect his work, because his enthusiasm has time after all, and what you do as a profession may be boring and difficult, which requires you to complete with great perseverance. Then our room, our flying psychological station room, is willing to give you support, no matter when you encounter theoretical difficulties and consultation difficulties, including some cases, including your own psychological difficulties, such as when you are doing it. Why do you think I should keep doing it? What am I doing for? We are all willing to share your problems, and then we will share how to solve these problems when we do it, hoping to achieve this goal. This is the purpose for me to set up this alliance of post-psychological counselors. We can be the supervisors of our peers, or we can be some more advanced supervisors, and we will do it later. This is a goal of future development. So when it comes to the setting of junior high school consulting room, they all speak very well. I think it should be a lot of gains. Then I'll give my opinion. First, I don't want to do it because of poor conditions. I think your school must create good conditions for me before I can do it. First of all, don't do it just because we want to. Second, there is really no need to make it complicated. As a matter of fact, what Mr. Liu Yang said just now was the facilities in the university. He has some money for that equipment. I don't think he can get through in middle school. He can do without a sofa, only a few wooden chairs. If you don't have a round table, you can use a table or desk. Just don't sit face to face when sitting, just sit at a 45-degree angle, which is convenient for visitors to relieve stress. It is also convenient for you to observe his performance, and it is also convenient for students to observe some of your expressions and communicate with each other with nonverbal actions. Sometimes we don't need that table. We can sit here comfortably at 45 degrees, then we can communicate and sit very relaxed. In addition, I suggest that you prepare more folding chairs in the consulting room, fold them up and put them in the corner when not in use. If you can have a small group, you can have a group treatment room. If you can't do it, you will definitely have a room. In this case, you can do several group consultations, such as three children, four children and five children doing one group consultation together. This is based on one and the other, and I strongly recommend that you do child counseling. As Fairy Feng said just now, he is really different from the recognized psychological counseling. I also advocate that parents should participate in children's psychological counseling, and we must win their support. Because any child may have family problems and may have to attend remedial classes for family therapy. Pay more attention to this aspect if you have the opportunity. Dream boat: Yes, most of the time, if parents are here, children's problems may be solved quickly. This is a very successful experience, because children's problems are the manifestations of family problems, and children express the obstacles of a family. For example, if parents are nervous, it will be reflected in their children. Then he will behave abnormally at school. You can solve your child without worrying about the tension between his parents or the divorce or quarrel between his parents all day. You can solve it. ! Then at this time, you should bring your parents in. Of course, you have to have some strength to inform his parents to do it together. This may need to make up some family therapy classes and learn something. Of course, you must strive for some training opportunities. You should try your best to give you more money to attend some training. That's good. If you don't have these materials, I can provide them for you, and then you can get some funds for some training. Also, don't hang too many things on the wall. The wind elf said it very well. There is no need to hang these ambitions and aphorisms, because he can hang some paintings in the main room of the treatment room, but if I do, I won't hang up, that is, the simpler the better. When he is not distracted, let him talk to you intently and find a relatively remote and quiet room, which can be a corner of the corridor. Besides, there should be some eye-catching signs outside, telling him that this is a psychological counseling room, posting the time when you received them and letting them know when they will come. There's one more thing you must tell him. There's someone inside. Tell him to wait for a while. You can't turn on the light. You put up an eye-catching sign: I am consulting, please wait a moment, there is at least a bench outside for him to sit there and wait for you. I think it is necessary to set a consultation time. You can't do it all afternoon by yourself. Everyone is exhausted. There may be someone outside. You should have a filing cabinet in your room to put some files and your books. This should be available, it doesn't need to be too good. If others don't use it after elimination, you can use it from the academic affairs office and the principal's office. It doesn't matter. There should also be records and registration, at least who came to which grade, gender and so on. How to find him in the future? You should register. Later, you can explain your workload and how much I have done this year. You should also design something that can be recorded, such as his problems, performance, his family situation, general situation, his behavior and so on. You need something to record, in case you leave a message later. We can sum it up and make a case in the future. Then you can design what he is, what you do with him, and what will happen next time he comes? You should have his personal file, which is called the treatment file. You have to number this document so that you can find him easily. Then you have a registration book with the same number as your registration book and put it in a filing cabinet, just like storing information. When I look for him, if he comes back in five months, I can find his information quickly. If you still want to prepare a recording pen, I think it's worth spending money to buy one if the school doesn't give it to you. 1000 yuan can buy one. You need a better quality recording pen, and then you can record. This recording will help you organize your information in the future. Of course, the recording process requires the consent of the students. If we do it on the right track, there should be a consultation agreement, that is, there should be a contract that stipulates what we should do and how to do it. That's what I told you, especially when we are doing family therapy, we should ask his parents to sign it so as not to cause him any trouble in the future. This is what we agreed, and there is a contract. These are all to be thought of.