Based on this idea, it seems that in today's society, more and more women seem glamorous on the surface, but in fact, there is unimaginable sloppy behind them. They only care about the exquisiteness of appearance, but they have never really managed their family life with their heart. The shiny appearance and sloppy back show their real life.
And how do men treat and choose such women?
A Ning and his girlfriend have been in love for more than a year. During this period of love, his mood is always cheerful and satisfied. Because his girlfriend is not only good-looking, but also gentle, always speaks softly, and every movement and expression shows extreme gentleness to him.
The most important thing is that my girlfriend is clean. Every time I meet him, I will dress up, change clothes and bring different styles. The whole person feels bright and tidy, which makes people look very comfortable and eye-catching.
Even Ginny's friends brightened up when they saw his girlfriend, boasting that he was lucky to find such a dazzling girlfriend, which was enviable.
So, for his girlfriend, A Ning is satisfied. He thinks such a beautiful and clean girlfriend is rare. After marriage, she will certainly become a virtuous and capable wife. He just wants to marry her home quickly.
At this stage, they have reached the point of talking about marriage. In the meantime, A Ning is also discussing their marriage with his girlfriend, and both of them are immersed in a sweet vision for a better future.
However, there has always been a mystery in A Ning's mind, that is, in the year when they fell in love, he never went to his girlfriend's home. It's not that he doesn't want to go, but that his girlfriend always refuses for various reasons. After each date, A Ning can only send his girlfriend to the downstairs where she lives, and his girlfriend never invites him upstairs.
At first, my girlfriend said it was inconvenient for him to share a house with another girl, but the girl had moved away for more than half a year, and her girlfriend still wouldn't let him go.
For this reason, A Ning was once very angry, but it soon passed. He loves his girlfriend, and he won't take this little thing to heart. Besides, they are getting married soon, so why haggle over every ounce?
But soon, by chance, A Ning finally walked into his girlfriend's house.
My girlfriend is on a business trip, only to find that she left an important document at home. She immediately contacted A Ning and asked him to get a spare key from the landlord and aunt to find the document and send it to her immediately.
A Ning hurried to get the key, but when he opened his girlfriend's door, he was shocked.
Girlfriend's house is too messy. As soon as she entered the door, a dozen pairs of shoes were piled there, and some of them were moldy all year round. Go ahead, there are seven or eight clothes, socks, gloves, hats and so on. There is no room for one person to sit on the sofa.
The tea table is full of teapot cups, cosmetics, all kinds of snacks, and many empty plastic bags, some of which are still scattered on the ground. The ground can be seen that it has not been cleaned for a long time, and the garbage in the garbage basket has overflowed.
A Ning, though a little surprised, hurried into the bedroom to look for the document, which could not be delayed any longer.
But the bedroom seems to be more messy than the living room. The quilts were piled there in a mess. Several pairs of underwear were thrown in various positions on the bed. There are still winter and summer pajamas on the bedside table. There are slippers everywhere on the ground.
A Ning frowned and finally found the file in the messy closet. He was about to go out, but he came back and pushed open the kitchen door.
The smell in the kitchen is terrible. There are several plates and chopsticks in the rice cooker. The greasy stove is full of all kinds of leftover take-away packages, on which some flies fly in from nowhere.
Seeing this, A Ning quickly closed the kitchen door and fled his girlfriend's house. He doesn't know how to describe his feelings at that time.
In the dead of night, A Ning couldn't sleep. He felt that everything he saw at his girlfriend's house today was like a dream. But when I think back carefully, the messy scenes of my girlfriend's house are so clear and true that they appear in front of him and make his eyes hot.
A Ning didn't expect that his girlfriend, who has been glamorous around him, is so sloppy behind her, which is far from her elegant and neat appearance.
He is optimistic and looking forward to their love, and he really wants to marry her home, but now he is hesitant and doesn't want to marry. He feels cheated by his girlfriend's appearance, and he is more worried about what his married life will be like after marrying such a sloppy woman.
A Ning couldn't help feeling a lot in his heart: his girlfriend's face was shiny and slippery, her back was untidy, and her eyes were hot when she walked into her house. Should I marry her?
In general, women always feel fresh and clean, and men also like neat women, but some women are just shiny on the surface, but behind them they are messy. In the face of such a woman, men will inevitably hesitate, and whether or not to get married seems to be a difficult problem.
In fact, for those women who have a shiny surface and a sloppy back, it is very important to have a shiny surface, but a clean back is more important, because no man wants to marry a woman who is duplicitous. When it comes to marriage, men still prefer virtuous and diligent women who can take care of their families in an orderly way.
Therefore, as a woman, we should not only pay attention to our appearance, but also learn to arrange the life behind us in a clean and tidy way, and resolutely not be a slovenly woman, so that it will be easier for men to favor us.