When buying a new house in the city, will you consider preparing a bedroom for your elderly parents in the country?
We bought a new house in the city, and of course we will prepare a bedroom for our elderly parents in the countryside. It is not easy for our parents to raise us. As long as they want, they can live with us for a long time and take care of them conveniently. Parents have worked hard all their lives. When they are old, they can rest in the city and see the outside world. If they are in the countryside, it is inevitable to work. They are so used to farm work that they can't stop. If they live in the city for a long time and don't want to do anything, it's just to let their children be filial to their parents! Parents who are used to living in the country may not be used to it when they come to the city. It seems that they have nothing to occupy and are always busy. Take Bian Xiao's mother-in-law as an example. She came to me just to find a job and help me wash clothes, but I am a hermit. I always think that the old man can't wash it, and I never let her wash it. She likes chatting with people, so I arranged for her to go to the market to chat with people. I taught her to surf the Internet, and now she is addicted to holding a mobile phone, so now she can live anywhere. What we are afraid of is that our parents don't want to live with us. If our parents don't live with us, it will be more troublesome for us to run around and take care of them. Living together as a family is also convenient to take care of, and it can also enhance the feelings with grandchildren, so that the elderly can really enjoy the happiness of their children and grandchildren around their knees. Many people think that there will be friction when parents live together, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious. In fact, think about your mother-in-law's today is your tomorrow. I will always treat her as an elder. I don't like her. I never quarrel with her. I either ignore her or leave at once. As a junior, avoiding is a wise choice, so my mother-in-law and I have never quarreled and get along well. If she lives alone in the country, we really can't take care of her. Her parents are old, and companionship is the best filial piety!