What's wrong with the baby? Look at the reason here. Weihai Chengde Education Senior Psychologist and Chief Psychologist will help you find the right medicine and a good cure.
There is not a child who doesn't want to behave well. What we want to see is why he can't do it.
As can be seen from the above, children's problems are inseparable from parents' words and deeds. It is really parents who study hard and their children make progress every day.
The biggest lock that binds children's development and freedom is all kinds of wrong restrictions on children by parents because of their inner worries, fears and insecurities! And attack, judge, ridicule, ignore coercion, uncertainty, support! There are also some parents who indulge and control in the guise of love, just to satisfy their inner lack.
Parents think that they have devoted all their efforts to their children and are full of expectations for their gratitude and return. Broken-hearted, weird and even depressed children have been waiting for you to say: I'm sorry! ! !
However, how many parents know how to reflect on themselves and correct themselves when it comes to their children? What wisdom and courage that is! Especially the role of mother is the most important. Because the hand that holds the cradle is the hand that holds the world, in a family, the mother awakened by wisdom not only has a smooth life, a happy love and marriage, and a harmonious family atmosphere, but also rewrites the family destiny and benefits future generations. Mother's learning and growth is the primary task, but also the most critical link to solve the problem. The awakening of maternal power can nourish and drive fatherhood. But this kind of driving is a hard process, so it is best for fathers to participate in learning and growth, take on their own responsibilities, and make children, families and life better faster. )
Yes, you think you have spent your whole life waiting for your children to say thank you!
And that fragmented, pessimistic and desperate child has been waiting for you to say: I'm sorry! ! !
Education really needs learning!
Learn to know yourself, learn to grow, and don't affect and hurt your children because of your own problems.
Only by studying can you jump out of your shallow, narrow and scarred self (every problem parent is the product of a problem family), jump out of the opposite of the child, really know him, feel him, understand him, understand him, and enter his heart, and you will help him!
Become a child's internal combustion engine, not a stumbling block or even a perpetrator!
Call on all parents to learn and grow up, understand their children's voices and save every fragile soul!
Wise parents will grow up for their children, live a happy life and be the umbrella of their spiritual and emotional energy!
This is the best love for children!
Teacher Guo, an expert in psychological education, said: Family parenting education should be "practical"
Love sticks to its principles unconditionally but gently.
"The policy! We can certainly cultivate positive, healthy, happy and excellent children!
Unconditional love
"Don't collapse if you need your parents to feel insecure!
"Parents are required to be cultivated, qualified and standardized!
Gentle persistence
"This is a reflection of parents' intelligence, emotion and personality.
So parents study hard and their children make progress every day! Children's problems are only a projection of parents' own problems and educational methods. Parents are the soil for children's spiritual growth, the arms to spread their wings and fly, the harbor to rest, and the combustion engine to start the internal kinetic energy!
An opportunity for children to reinvent themselves and rewrite the height of life. Do you want it? Fundamentally start the kinetic energy of life, mindfulness, develop potential and broaden your horizons! Completely get rid of children's boring, meaningless, powerless, lack of self-confidence and other chaotic and helpless escape States, live a wonderful life and bravely climb the highest peak of life!
Every big exam in life, psychological counseling before the exam, adjusting exam energy, improving attention, psychological quality and improvisation ability in the examination room, learning necessary and practical exam skills and methods! Ensuring exam results is the most important job. Put an end to the usual efforts, and the exam has brought emotional and personality problems such as nervousness affecting performance. Improve test scores in an all-round way. Help candidates get through the period of tension, anxiety and burnout before the exam, give full play to their talents and create brilliance together. Years of practice have proved that it not only has magical effects, but also has special effects of correcting personality and enhancing internal energy. It is not only suitable for college entrance examination students, but also includes major life choices such as postgraduate entrance examination, civil service examination, interview and entry.
Psychological consultation is a matter of "caring for the soul, exploring the self and repairing the soul". When people can't choose because of inner conflict, confusion and pain, or get stuck in a certain state for a long time, there will be various problems in life, such as family, marriage, interpersonal relationship, career development, study and work, emotional personality, physical health, events,, and so on.
Will the counselor provide it during the consultation?
A critical listening, a high degree of attention, a feeling of acceptance and understanding, from the perspective of a consultant, help visitors to see and analyze themselves, so that visitors can see the essence of themselves and things they could not see before with the help of another person through this consulting relationship.
When we see what we can't see, many things that make us miserable are explained. Open the heart knot, ease the mood, revise the system of cognition and belief, be refreshed, and the wisdom and ability to solve problems will also rise.
The consultation time may be unexpectedly short, but for a person who sincerely asks for help, the seeds of change have sprouted unconsciously.
It is said that a leopard cannot change his spots, but this does not prevent us from trying to be better ourselves here.
Release management emotions and correct cognitive behavior. Learn technical methods, improve emotional intelligence, realize life wisdom and transform life energy. Make life easy, happy and peaceful.
It's never too late to take a step towards growth.
Weihai Chengde Education is a senior psychological counselor with rich consulting experience, profound technology and extensive knowledge. Over the years, I have helped countless people from all walks of life find themselves and open their hearts. Live a happy life.
Help every explorer move towards the light and live a wonderful life. This is the belief of the Cai Xi team.