At the beginning of the performance, Li Ai was lying in the room. Finally, her husband opened the door of Li Ai's room and went back to his room to sleep. On the other hand, Li Ai thinks that the benefits of sleeping in separate rooms are not too great: first, there is private space, which is not disturbed by the other party;
There can be a cooling-off period after the quarrel to avoid the deterioration of the relationship. "After all these years, I can finally have a good sleep," said his wife. You can not only sleep in different rooms, but also go out together, go to different cinemas and watch different movies, and then come back together. Subverted the marriage view of ordinary people. Couples choose to sleep in separate rooms. There are generally several situations. First of all, the power of reality. The most common reason for couples to sleep separately is pregnancy or a few years after the baby is born.
During pregnancy, pregnant women are often in an anxious state because of physical discomfort, and their sleep drops rapidly. During this period, most couples will choose to sleep in separate rooms. Many couples choose to sleep in separate rooms, so that their partners can have enough rest time after giving birth. This kind of situation belongs to passive sleeping in separate rooms, which is usually temporary. Physical limitations. One of them has bad habits such as snoring, grinding his teeth, talking in his sleep and even sleepwalking, and the other has sleep disorder, that is, difficulty in falling asleep. Such couples are very common. Therefore, when two people sleep together, they cannot get a good rest.
Because people with sleep disorders are often disturbed by noise, people with bad habits will also feel guilty, and then they will become nervous and unable to sleep. At this point, both sides are faced with a choice. Continue to live together or live separately. If you want to be together, you have to solve the sleep problem. At this point, sleeping separately will be their best choice.
There is a kind of person, no matter what kind of relationship he is in, who always finds it difficult to devote himself wholeheartedly. Even in the face of family, or partner, there is a film. This kind of person is called "alienated personality" in psychology.
"The most important factor affecting the direction of marriage is that both husband and wife have the same view on marriage." In other words, it is not a decision that really determines the life and death of a marriage, but whether the two sides have the same understanding of this decision.
If you all agree that it is ok to sleep in separate rooms, this decision will not make the relationship between your worse, but will put the relationship between your on a better path. However, if one partner only cooperates, sleeping separately may push your's marriage to the brink of collapse. So whether sleeping in separate rooms will affect marriage depends on whether you and your partner agree with this decision. But why are so many people unwilling to sleep in separate rooms? What these people fear is not sleeping in different rooms, but the consequences of their decisions. Sleeping in separate rooms, my husband can do some bad things behind my back. Because most people are hearsay about the result of speculation. The elders say that sleeping in separate rooms is the poison of marriage.