Today's marriage, if it continues, can make do. If not, you will divorce and start a new marriage. It seems that it has become the practice of young people, and the elders are too lazy to intervene.
1993, Xiao Na encountered a headache. She married her husband for four years, bought a house together and gave birth to a son, who just turned 1.
At this juncture, her husband died in a car accident and Xiao Na was still young, so Xiao Na decided to take her son to remarry. She doesn't want to marry better, as long as she is good to her son.
When the news that she was going to remarry her son was heard by her rural mother-in-law, her mother-in-law came to the city the next day, quarreled with her without asking or asking, and even slapped her twice.
Because her husband is the youngest in the family, and her mother-in-law is over 70 years old, and her thoughts are still very conservative, Xiao Na is not allowed to remarry, saying that Xiao Na's husband should be filial for at least three years.
She also said some ugly things, saying that she was immoral and that she had a man outside, otherwise she would not be in such a hurry to remarry. It is unreasonable to even say that she must have a savage, and she also killed her son with the savage, and her son was eager to get married after his death.
02
For the mother-in-law, her son has just passed away. If Xiao Na takes her son away, her mother-in-law will lose her grandson again. Looking at the old woman with tears on her face, Xiao Na relented again. Not only did she not blame her mother-in-law for her irrationality, but she also told her mother-in-law in tears that she would not marry.
Mother-in-law was coaxed, but she said that if Xiao Na reneged, she would not give Xiao Na any property, even the house she and her husband earned, nor would she give Xiao Na a brick or tile.
Xiao Na thought, with children, if she can't buy a house, where will she live? Reasoning, Xiao Na didn't dare to make her mother-in-law angry, so she had to postpone her remarriage, and even the objects introduced by her friends were rejected by her.
Xiao Na, who settled down, tried to communicate with her mother-in-law, but repeated communication failed. Xiao Na was very depressed. How can there be such a stuffy mother-in-law these days?
Friends have introduced her many times. She secretly met someone else, and it felt good, but her mother-in-law didn't know how to face it here. As soon as she mentions remarriage, her mother-in-law will be adamant at once.
Xiao Na said that this does not mean that she is married, but that she is at the right age. If in three years, when she is close to 30 and her son is 4 years old, I'm afraid more people will dislike her.
03
Now I am remarried. On the one hand, I am still young and have many choices. Secondly, my son is still young and his memory is not deep. When he grows up, he won't be too rebellious to his stepmother.
Unfortunately, her mother-in-law Xiao Na failed the test. She thought about remarrying regardless, but she couldn't afford the consequences. First, she can't get her property. Second, my mother-in-law threatened to die. If you can't die, you will depend on her every day to see how she lives with other men.
There are really many difficulties in this world. Every choice you make at this time must be carefully thought out. If you can think of all possible outcomes, proceed from your actual situation, weigh the pros and cons, and then make a decision.
Now that you're remarried and have waited for three years, what's the worst you can afford? Once you think it over, you can make a decision.
As for other people's suggestions, it's just a reference. After all, they are not the parties. The advice given will be personal and cannot be used as a basis for your choice.
Good feelings, good life, just a clear conscience.
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