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These two days, I feel weak and exhausted every day, and I have not done less work, but I am dragging my soft body every day.
I watched several issues of the 50-kilometer Taohuawu, 15 people, each with its own characteristics. Li Xueqin and the silent king are my favorites. Because I wrote an article about the silent king before, I will talk about Li Xueqin this time.
Li Xueqin is impressive mainly because she is true-true to herself and true to others. The same words, which can't be said from other people's mouths, seem to be jokes, but they are all true.
I like Li Xueqin, mainly because she has been truly expressing her feelings, not because other 14 people have said things against their will. Most importantly, everyone thinks so, and only she has spoken out her thoughts loudly.
2.
"Don't like group activities"
Young people nowadays, except their usual friends, hate being with a group of strangers. But because of the needs of the program, they stay together almost every day.
What impressed me most was a picnic, where we got together after 60 to 00. Because we were born in different times, we accepted completely different cultural influences. The most obvious point is that young people haven't heard retro music, and old people haven't heard the latest music. There is also the link of playing games. Song Dandan bluntly said that the game "werewolf killing" is not suitable for people over 40. Zhou also enthusiastically finished the rules of the game, but was rejected by older people.
At that party, Li Xueqin sat awkwardly in a room. He can't attend and doesn't want to attend. He didn't understand the fun of those people and felt bored. In the program, she has the best relationship with Yoko Spicy, but in the reunion, she and Yoko Spicy are two types. Yoko spicy is a person who is afraid that silence will create an atmosphere, and Li Xueqin doesn't like crowded occasions at all.
However, the biggest difference between her and others is that no one likes her, but some people will act like they want to fit in. She didn't. She didn't like it. She would say. What's more different is that others will feel embarrassed when they say it. For example, Hans Zhang protested directly when he didn't want to do anything, which finally made people embarrassed.
Li Xueqin says everything like a joke, and serious words come out of her mouth like a joke. Every time she tells the truth in a joking way, everyone understands, but she doesn't feel embarrassed at all.
Why does Li Xueqin cause everyone's * * * sound? Because many people are like her, she is our representative, we don't like group activities, but we will cater to others because of saving face or showing our emotional intelligence, but she won't, and we want to express ourselves as truly as she does, but the final result is to appear unsociable.
So like her is like her truth, like her to say what we want to say, but she has been wronged herself, because she is afraid that others will have opinions on herself, so she will not express them.
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"Disdain to hide your laziness"
"Laziness" is human nature, and it is an innate gene. But only when we are alone can we reveal this nature. The most intuitive embodiment is that when we come home from work, we take off the armor that imprisons our souls during the day and put on slippers and pajamas, which is the most relaxing moment of the day.
By the way, I have to take off my elaborate makeup. I heard that some boyfriends who have talked for a year have never seen their girlfriends without makeup. I wonder how tired that girl should be. Those beautiful and exquisite things are displayed to others. Only by being yourself can you show your true self.
But Li Xueqin is different, different from our performance in the face of groups, just like what she looks like. I just don't want to move, I just don't want to do it I don't need to arrange anyone. I just want to be my truest self.
We want to, but we dare not. Whenever they are faced with a group, they compete for performance, fearing that others will say that they are not sensible, have no vision, have no manners, have no education, have low emotional intelligence and worry about IQ. What's more important is to label yourself as "hardworking and willing to work" and give others the impression that you are quick-sighted and quick-witted.
But what are we really like? Just like Li Xueqin, she doesn't want to move or do anything. She lives the life we want.
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"Don't hide your emotions."
Su Mang will hold a fashion carnival and prepare clothes for many people. Li Xueqin said that she wanted a pajamas-style dress. What did Su Mang prepare for her, a spacesuit? I don't know. It's like bread anyway. Li Xueqin seems to have no love.
First of all, she has no interest in this activity; Secondly, I am quite dissatisfied with her style. But I don't want to argue, what she means is obvious-I am a puppet at the mercy of others, and my only hope is that the activity will end soon. So it doesn't matter whether it looks good or not, but I'm definitely uncomfortable, that's all.
For the fashion carnival, Su Mang wants to dig and carve flowers, which Li Xueqin can't understand. She thinks it is understandable to carve in the city, because there are asphalt roads everywhere, and planting flowers requires soil. However, in the case that Taohuawu is full of loess, she can't figure out how to pile up the soil.
There is also the problem of loosening the soil for flowers. She felt that she had nothing to do. What Su Mang should really do is to loosen the soil before planting and then plant flowers. Anyway, Li Xueqin doesn't want to do this job at all, so she can't go anywhere. Su Mang thinks she has too many reasons.
When Chen wanted them to help move the sculpture, she quit directly and joked in the name of "heart-to-heart" in the house. This is something only Li Xueqin can do. Many people don't want to go out and move, but they still go out. She won't go out until she can find a reason to go out.
Li Xueqin is the person we always wanted to be, and she did, but for various reasons, we have been doing what others like, not what we like.
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Why does Li Xueqin dare? Maybe she never won people's attention by being good-looking and pleasing others, but by being true and talented.
Unlike the four young people in Room 8, she has to be careful in everything for fear of being hacked by the whole network. She doesn't seem to need it. Anyway, her job is to hack herself and others. And when you are completely honest with yourself, you seem fearless.
Of course, as long as it is a group activity, there will be no complete self. Li Xueqin is a real person, and no one can do anything according to his own wishes. There were many embarrassments in the program, and Li Xueqin contributed a lot by herself.
As long as there are people outside our family, we need to accommodate. What's the difference between family and others? We can be ourselves to varying degrees. In front of our family, we don't hide it, but in front of others, we can't be willful and selfish, so we can't be ourselves completely.
So carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.