1, stand from the child's point of view when communicating.
A large part of the reason why children are rebellious is that their parents are too strict, taking care of everything and asking everything. After a long time, they got bored and began to resist. At this time, parents should communicate with rebellious children as much as possible, and think from the perspective of children when communicating. This will make it easier for children to accept their parents' suggestions and persuasion.
Step 2 observe communication
There are two aspects to observation, one is to observe children, and the other is to observe yourself. Many times, parents must change their perspective and observe the problem of children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. Observe how the children have changed and how they treat them.
3. Make more suggestions or select conditions.
Because we know that rebellious children like to do the opposite, then if parents ask their children at this time, the rebellious children will obviously not agree. When you do this, you will not only fail to meet your expectations, but also make yourself angry and annoyed. If you calm down and think about it, you will know that this is forcing your child to realize his wishes, not making his life better.
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