Mother said Xiao Hao refused to compromise, and her mother angrily accused him of ignorance and unfilial. Finally, he reluctantly agreed. Grandma's house is very lively, and all relatives and friends are present. Seeing Xiao Hao's family arrive, everyone shifted the topic of chat to Xiao Hao, asking him about his study for a while, and telling anecdotes about his childhood for a while, which made him want to find a hole to get into. Ironically, some relatives Xiao Hao doesn't even know also make fun of him. He was embarrassed and embarrassed. After chatting with grandma, Xiao Hao went home early on the grounds that his homework was not finished.
There are not a few children like Xiao Hao, especially after 90 s and 00 s, and they don't like visiting relatives more and more. Is it impolite? The reason is not that simple. Now relatives are moving less and less, and they just meet in a hurry and have a meal on holidays. Most people always refuse because they are busy at work and nervous at study. After all, it's just an excuse not to go. Why do children nowadays less and less want to go to relatives' homes? They hate being asked about things. What relatives fear most is study, love, work and salary. If you get along well, you can still answer questions, otherwise you will hurt your self-esteem and face, not to mention some snobs like to compare and show off, which makes the parties very embarrassed. Some relatives even like to ask private questions, which is embarrassing. 2. Have social phobia. Nowadays, the Internet is developing faster and faster. Most people are used to chatting online, but once they return to real communication, they immediately become silent. Many people have social phobia, are afraid of saying the wrong thing and care about what others think of them, so they choose to escape. However, most children wander between school, cram school and home for a long time, concentrate on their studies, and their emotional intelligence and communication skills have not been effectively exercised, so that they will be shy, nervous and helpless in a strange environment, and they will be very stiff when asked by relatives. Because of this, they are increasingly disgusted with visiting relatives. We should know that social competence is the embodiment of a person's emotional intelligence and an indispensable survival tool in the real society. It is very important to cultivate children's good communication skills, which is an essential quality for future survival and development.
Children's social skills need a little training. Parents should give guidance and suggestions at critical moments to improve their children's social skills and cultivate their sense of independence and self-confidence. For example, teach children to be polite, communicate with others, integrate into collective life, resolve conflicts, improve their social skills in different situations, establish good interpersonal relationships, better integrate into society, become "social masters" and easily cope with the difficulties of visiting relatives. 3. Relatives usually interact too little. Nowadays, people's feelings have faded. Relatives no longer live in groups. Because of the long time of work and marriage, they went their separate ways and walked less and less on weekdays. Some relatives have little contact and their feelings are getting weaker and weaker. There was nothing to talk about when they met. 4. Too lazy. Nowadays, most people are partial subjects, seldom develop hobbies, often stay at home to play drama and games, and so on. And they are lazy and don't like to run around.
5, tired of the hypocrisy of adults, in fact, people will see things thoroughly after living for a long time. There are few pure feelings now. Everyone is interested in money and money. They are tired, have no desire to associate with others, and are tired of the hypocrisy of adults. They just want to be alone and seek a pure land.