-Reflecting on Europe with tears.
She is a little girl who often lifts other people's skirts; She is a little girl who has been beaten many times for lifting other people's skirts and still does not change her original intention; She is a little girl who is hated by everyone because she often lifts other people's skirts. Her name is Europe. She is the protagonist of Tears in Europe.
The author of this article is a teacher. On a sunny morning, the teacher came to school in a bright dress. However, just as she was immersed in the children's praise for her, she felt someone lifting her skirt behind her and touching her skirt with the other hand. She is Europe.
The author was very angry, and then the children began to criticize the bad habits in Europe. Europe in the crowd bowed its head and shrank its hands, as if a "war criminal" was being tried by everyone. But when the teacher bent down to look at Europe, she saw tears in the child's eyes. She lowered her head and started talking to Europe with tears in her eyes. It turned out that Europe's father was working outside, and her mother ran away with others. She has been living alone with her blind grandmother. Every day before going to school, Grandma Ou will lift her skirt, touch her clothes and ask her, "Are you cold, son?" Europe said to the teacher with tears, "Teacher, I just want to open your skirt, touch your clothes and ask if you are cold?" After listening to Europe's words, the children and teachers present cried.
Seeing this, my eyes are also involuntarily moist. What a lovely Europe, what a kind child. She is expressing her concern for others in her own unique way. But everyone misunderstood her.
I remember reading an article before. The little girl in the article carefully walked from the living room to the room with a glass of water. However, maybe she was too young, maybe the water in the cup was too full. Finally, she slipped and fell to the ground, and the water spilled all over her, and the cup fell to the ground and broke. The child was scared to cry. At this time, my mother ran out of the room and saw the scene in front of her, complaining constantly, but the little girl said to her mother with tears in her eyes, "I'm sorry, mom, I just want to get you a glass of water."
I remember, once, I came home from a business trip, and it was almost 12 o'clock in the evening. As soon as I opened the door, I saw my son standing in the living room at a glance. At that time, I scolded my son angrily: "Son, why don't you go to bed so late?" ! How can I go to school tomorrow! "But my son said to me," Mom, I'm waiting for you. "
Seeing this article and recalling what happened in the past, I can't help feeling deeply guilty. A child's heart is often pure as a clear spring, without a flaw. However, are we often a little self-righteous? Do we often look at children's behavior from the perspective of adults? Do we often misunderstand children? When we see a child's unconventional behavior; When we find children's "wrong" words and deeds; Before denouncing children, shouldn't we lean down and have a sincere exchange and communication with them, and then express our "high opinion" after understanding their real thoughts?
Therefore, don't always look at children's words and deeds from the perspective of an adult. In fact, every child has a kind angel stationed in his heart!