The first time I attended a parent-teacher conference, the kindergarten teacher said that your son had ADHD and could not sit on the bench for three minutes. You'd better take him to the hospital.
On the way home, the son asked her what the teacher said. Her nose was so sour that she almost shed tears, because of the 30 children in the class, only he performed the worst. Only to him, the teacher showed disdain. But she still told her son: "The teacher praised you, saying that the baby can't sit on the bench for 1 minute, and now he can sit for three minutes. The mothers of other children envy their mothers because only the baby can't enter the class. " That night, her son ate two bowls of rice for the first time and didn't let her feed him.
My son is in primary school. At the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher said that your son ranked 40th among 50 students in the class. We suspect that he is a little mentally retarded. You'd better take him to the hospital for examination. She shed tears on her way home. However, when she got home, she said to her son sitting at the desk, "The teacher is full of confidence in you and says that you are not a stupid child. As long as you put your heart into it, you will surpass your deskmate who ranks 2 1. When she said this, she found her son's dim eyes suddenly filled with light, and his depressed face suddenly tightened.
After the children went to junior high school, they held another parent-teacher meeting. She sat in her son's seat, waiting for the teacher to call his name, because at every parent-teacher meeting, her son's name was always called to the ranks of poor students. This time, however, to her surprise, she didn't hear it until the end. She was not used to it, so she asked the teacher. The teacher told her: "According to your son's current grades, it is a bit dangerous to enter a key high school." When she found her son waiting for her, she walked out of school in surprise. On the way, she held her son's shoulder and felt a kind of unspeakable sweetness in her heart. She told her son, "The class teacher is very satisfied with you. He said that as long as you work hard, you have great hopes to be admitted to key high schools. "
Graduated from high school. When the first batch of university admission notices were issued, she had a hunch that her son was admitted to Tsinghua, because when she applied for the exam, she told her son that she believed he could be admitted to this university. His son taught her a courier with the words "Tsinghua University Admissions Office" from school, and suddenly he turned and ran to his room and burst into tears. My son cried and said, "Mom, I know I'm not a smart boy, but only you can appreciate me in this world." At this time, she was sad and happy, and could no longer restrain the tears that had been condensed in her heart for more than ten years, making it wet the envelope in her hand.
Therefore, parents should not compare their children's shortcomings with the advantages of people all over the world, but should look at their advantages with a magnifying glass and encourage their children to make progress.
1. Spring is the season in bloom; May, mother's own holiday. Three years of Mother's Day, three years of flowers in full bloom. There is a flower that has been in bloom for three years; There is a person who is full of gratitude for his life.
It was a sad night in 2005.
This is her first Mother's Day. This year, I am in the sixth grade. The second Sunday in May is my mother's holiday. On this day, she was not at home, but in Dongguan.
I stayed and flew to make a phone call after the evening study. I clutched my phone card tightly, and my hands were soaked with sweat. Soon, there was a long line behind me, calling my mother. I was a little nervous when I heard my classmates and my mother say Happy Mother's Day. In this short time, I began to think about what to say and what to say. It used to be a long time.
It's finally my turn. When I inserted my mobile phone card carefully, my hands actually trembled. When pressing the key, my hand suddenly went soft, and I pressed the number several times before pressing it. At the beginning of the long beep, I suddenly became nervous and my brain went blank. What should I say? My hand holding the microphone began to shake, and I wanted to hang up.
"Hello." That's her tired voice. I listened, and my heart was slightly sour.
"Mom, where are you?" I asked affectionately.
"Dongguan." Her voice is still tired. She has worked hard for a long time.
"Oh, today is Mother's Day. Happy Mother's Day, Mom. "
"Um ..." My mother was a little flustered on the phone, and I could hear it. I think she'll be there smiling. "Is that all right?" Mom actually cried, with a heavy nasal voice. Hearing her voice, my nose ached and my tears almost fell out. But I held back. "Nothing else. I hang up, don't be too tired. " I quickly ended the call, because I was afraid that tears would flow endlessly and it would be embarrassing for everyone to see it. "Well, study hard." My mother is there to encourage me. "
In 2006, I said nothing.
On Mother's Day in 2006, I was excited all night when I returned to school. The next day, my mother pulled me up early and said that I would go to the county town early. My plan failed. In the car, my voice was stuffed with cotton and I couldn't jump out a word. I am not a child who likes to express my feelings, so I feel very uncomfortable, especially when I say something in person.
In this way, the sunny Mother's Day was taken away by my silence.
In 2007, the ice cream melted.
This Mother's Day, I am still at school. Sunday is an open day, so parents can go to school. My mother seldom comes, and I don't insist. I still called my mother, and she was still very excited. She said, come to see me at school.
I was excited for this sentence for a long time. The weather is very hot, and there are thin beads of sweat on my forehead. I bought a mung bean ice cream specially. I am waiting for my mother at the newsstand alone. The popsicle is cold, and I dare not hold it with my hands, because my hands are very hot, and I am afraid to melt it.
Two classes will soon be over, just like a basin of water poured out. The figure of expectant mother never appeared, and the ice cream melted bit by bit in front of my eyes. Time and temperature took away its coolness and left me a bag of mung bean water. I took it and stumbled back to the dormitory. I felt tightness in my chest, my eyes were swollen with pain and my tears came out at once. My classmates asked me with concern. I'm ... very loud. My classmates are still worried. I said the reason off and on. They comforted me that my mother might have something to do and couldn't come. Maybe, I comfort myself.
The last classmate borrowed my mobile phone to call my mother. I pressed the familiar number to hold back my tears and held the ice cream that had already turned into water in my hand. I asked my mother what happened. Are you here? Mom said it's okay. I have arrived in the county seat. My nose is sour and tears are coming down. The dormitory is very quiet. I held back my emotions and told her not to come. The school is closed. Mom asked why? I cried loudly and shouted loudly, but I didn't know what I was shouting at last. She can't hear clearly. I'm fine. You don't have to come. The ice cream bag burst at once, and I spilled a lot of mung bean water on my body. I feel more wronged. I hung up the phone violently! As if the soul had been taken away, I went back to the classroom and studied at night.
Mother's Day, a flower's oath, a feeling of gratitude.
2. "If you want to work hard, have ideals and goals, you must work hard. If you want to be admitted to Harvard, you must study hard ... "Listen, this voice is my mother educating me to study hard again.
Once, I got 93 points in the math unit test, and all the mistakes were wrong. I was afraid to tell my mother. One day, when my mother helped me check my homework, I found a test paper hidden under the pile of books on my desk. When she opened it, it was bright red "93", which made me very angry. So, my mother called me to her place and said nothing, just at my place. I grazed my skin. My mother handed me the test paper before I understood what was going on. I froze and looked at my mother. After a while, I looked down like a prisoner and said, "mom, I'm sorry, I was wrong." I shouldn't hide the test paper. Please forgive me. " "Is that your understanding?" My mother snapped. I shook my hands and said, "I'll try to get a hundred points in the next exam." At this time, my mother was even more angry and punched me hard in the leg. I began to cry. My mother said, "I made a mistake in the exam, so I should carefully analyze the reasons for the mistake and guarantee a hundred points." I nodded, but my heart was complaining about my mother. How difficult is it if you score 100? I'll show it to you next time and give you a surprise. Believe it or not, we'll see. "
As a result, I really got 100 for the second time. I was so happy that I thought my mother would praise me. So I handed the test paper to my mother as soon as I got home. I didn't expect her to hit me again. Just when I looked at my mother blankly, my mother said to me meaningfully, "Pei Shan, study hard. Learning a lesson is like climbing a mountain. You are not afraid of tears or difficulties. You have to work hard from an early age. "
To this day, my mother's words are still in my heart.