It is said that the first day is a critical period for children's turning development. Hong Jian, who lives in Jiangbei District, has a deep understanding of this. Two years ago, a colleague's daughter was promoted to junior high school. The girl with good grades left home to study, and soon her grades dropped sharply. Later, her colleagues had to rent a house near the school to accompany her.
So, early in the morning, Hong Jian took his wife and son to the Bayu Theater in Hongyadong. Children's education is a family event, and it is best to study together.
At 8: 30 in the morning, many parents arrived at the lecture scheduled to start at 9: 00. As parents of new students, many parents get together to exchange views on their children's education. Adjust educational methods after returning to China.
In the lecture, Hou Zhujiu, executive director of Tianjin Private Education Association and president of Bachuan International School, Zhou Wenqiang, a key Chinese teacher in Chongqing middle school, a member of Chongqing basic education quality inspection expert database and executive vice president of Bachuan Middle School, gave sincere explanations based on their personal experiences, which aroused a wide range of * * * voices from parents.
In the live interactive session, some parents came prepared and raised various issues that experts were concerned about.
Many parents said that they were deeply touched after listening to the lecture. It feels good and enlightening. Song Yu said that he has been paying attention to information about children's education. He saw the news of the lecture in the newspaper before, and later brought his friends to listen.
This is my first time to attend this kind of lecture, and I feel very rewarding. Song Yu said that after returning, he will try to make some adjustments in the way he gets along with his children.
Life education: teach children to respect life and never give up on themselves.
Practical education: children should be encouraged to acquire knowledge and develop their abilities from practice, and to create knowledge, accumulate wisdom and pursue happiness in practice.
Personality education: A successful person must have a broad mind, lofty ideals, firm will and a heavy sense of responsibility.
Parents should not attach too much importance to grades.
Zhou Wenqiang suggested that for different children, parents can start from the following aspects: telling children the learning characteristics and methods in middle school, the most important thing is to learn to attend classes, actively preview and review in time; Tell children that they must go all out, and it is absolutely impossible to be diligent, down-to-earth, casual, sloppy and smart. It is a good way to strengthen the guidance of methods, especially the learning characteristics of different subjects, such as Chinese writing, mathematical problem solving, English listening and reading training. It is a good way to subscribe to relevant books, newspapers and magazines to get method guidance. Don't care too much about the exam results. The scores of different papers are not comparable, and occasionally failing in the exam will not hurt your self-confidence.
Psychology can't make children narcissistic.
When talking about the psychological characteristics of freshmen, Zhou Wenqiang emphasized the linkage between home and school. Most children are only children now. If their family is well-off, their parents are spoiled, or their parents are closely related to their teachers, such children often have a strong sense of superiority and take me as the center in everything.
However, the class is a collective, and it is bound to encounter setbacks, mainly from the disapproval of classmates and the criticism of teachers. Zhou Wenqiang said that if we can't treat it correctly, we may become narcissistic, stay away from the collective, and even intensify contradictions. We hope that parents can persist in educating their children about tolerance, mutual assistance, introspection, communication and dealing with classmates. In order to cultivate a sense of cooperation and establish a team spirit.
Hou Zhujiu believes that whether it is school education or family education, it is most important for children to feel happy. Parents' education lies in teaching by example, so no matter how busy they are, parents should communicate with their children at least once a week.
The problem of puppy love in life should be correctly guided.
Experts also said that parents found from their children's manners that their children were getting too close to a classmate of the opposite sex, so parents must guide them correctly in an appropriate way, neither letting themselves drift nor embellishing them. We should carry out science education in advance. Too early is meaningless, and too late may not be able to resist the impact of desire. The content should guide healthy hobbies and enrich children's interests.