Maybe every man has his own answer in his heart, and I recently chatted with several boys and found that this is related to the degree to which men love a woman. The deeper they love, the harder it is to forget. And those women who forget the rivers and lakes are mostly fleeting acquaintances.
A woman who takes part in accidental amusement will soon forget it.
Joe told me that he met many women in his life, but for some women, he didn't love each other as much as he thought. Treating their feelings is just a fling.
He just wanted to try the feeling of ambiguity and never got caught up in it. This kind of love may just want to know how attractive he is, not for love, but to find his confidence from the affirmation of women.
With such a girl, he forgot about it in about two months. Because he has never felt each other seriously, and his feelings with each other have only been tasted, such love is of course forgotten in the blink of an eye, because he has never had in-depth communication with each other, and there is no spiritual fit, just a simple understanding.
Just like we met many people in thousands of years, some people met by chance, which may prove that their fate is that rivers and lakes forget each other.
Joe said that he soon forgot a woman, perhaps because of his randomness. A man who really loves a woman will devote himself wholeheartedly. How can he forget it easily?
Second, some of them are distant memories, which are occasionally remembered.
Zhou Zhou told me that she remembered her first love now, maybe it was a long memory. This first love was Zhou Zhou's secret love, not Zhou Zhou's actual lover.
At that time, Zhou Zhou's feelings had just begun to sprout, and I liked her because of her maturity. Every time he sees her, he gets nervous. Perhaps a girl who has never been so touched, Zhou Zhou is deeply impressed by unrequited love.
When I was young, love was really pure I like it if I like it. If you don't like it, you don't like it. Money, house and family status have never been considered.
Zhou Zhou said that she didn't know the reality of marriage until she got married. He sometimes misses the simplicity of unrequited love, or commemorates the purest and most beautiful feelings.
For Zhou Zhou, although these are long memories, they can make him realize the true feelings and love of youth. Now he feels more about the reality and pressure of married life, occasionally misses it, and perhaps longs to return to peace.
Third, accept fate and slowly forget the rivers and lakes.
Someone once said that getting married is the right time to meet the right person, so we will come together. When we were not married, we met many people who had been touched, but we missed them for various reasons. At this time, we gradually understand that some people are doomed to be inseparable.
Da Pei once said that his first love was in vain. The first love affair was that his parents disagreed, and the girl was five years older than him. His parents don't want him to find a girl older than her. They have been trying to persuade them both. Later, the girl couldn't stand the pressure of the other parents and the stimulation of what the other parents said, so she decided to give up on her own initiative.
Da Pei said that if the other party didn't give up, he wouldn't give up, but when the girl chose to give up, he felt that his persistence was ineffective.
Later, Dapei met his wife, and he found that the original beautiful feelings were created by the persistence of two people. He and his wife always think that feelings come first, and it doesn't matter whether parents agree or not. Although Dapei's parents were not satisfied, they chose to be together at the insistence of both sides.
For Dapei, it is more of a sigh. After getting married, he gradually forgot his first girlfriend, because he gradually understood the fate.
Fourth, the deepest love is unforgettable for a lifetime.
Men are sometimes more realistic about love than you think, but when a man meets someone who really suits him, he will devote himself wholeheartedly. Even if they are not together, the other party will become Bai Yueguang in his mind and the most important memory in life.
This is how Orfila felt when he fell in love with Xiaoya. Xiaoya is her partner, and the two of them are filming and interviewing. In the communication, we gradually developed a good impression on each other.
It is said that falling in love is easier than getting along. When Wu Xin and Xiao Ya are together, Wu Xincai finds that Xiao Ya is too powerful, which makes it difficult for the other party to run in.
Although Wu Xin loves Xiaoya, Xiaoya's strength has always been opposed by Orfila's parents. Maybe parents are afraid that a strong daughter-in-law will weaken their son's position.
The two finally broke up reluctantly, but Orfila knew that Xiaoya was still the most important person in her life, and they had left too many good impressions when they went out to travel together.
Sometimes, it is difficult for us to forget a lover, which is closely related to our memory. The more we grow up in life, the more beautiful we are, and the harder it is for us to forget.
And the more people we love, or just a little love, we will forget the Jianghu for a long time and never think of it again.