Learn the basic knowledge of the school well before you consider the next question. Successful parents may be more concerned about teaching their children what is called? Useless? Knowledge of. For example, let him learn some calligraphy, painting or piano. On the surface, it is of little use, but it can improve children's personal ability from the side. Because my descendants don't mean to go to school or just to go to college, isn't it a waste to simply go to college to work and buy a car and a house? It's no use learning those so-called things? Knowledge can enrich a child's mind and comprehensive quality, and make his mind healthier and benefit for life.
On the other hand, give children more independent space. Let him not only ask his parents for help, but also think for himself when dealing with problems or encountering difficulties that need to be solved. And let children participate in their own family affairs. Only in this way can children truly feel that they belong to this family. It will also reduce the misunderstanding and estrangement between children and parents. When parents and children have a good relationship, they will get along like friends, with a relaxed atmosphere and closer relationship.
There is also the right to let children have their own choices. For example, children like toys since childhood, and let them choose their own toys. If you want to study, let him choose his favorite type. When children grow up, the habit of falling in love and making friends is decided by themselves, not by their parents.
Successful education does not only mean that children do well in school. A successful education can better deal with all aspects of society.