In the consultation, I will learn that when children have such problems, there will be many parents behind them. They are either parents with emotional problems, or they accuse each other and complain about the details of their lives, or they run their lives by quarreling and fighting, with little regard for their children's feelings. More often, parents will love their children and do everything for their children's happiness to cover up their depression and helplessness, and they can't get each other's care and care. I hope that through my own efforts and efforts, children can understand and accept themselves and reward themselves, but the more I pay, the more problems my children have. Children who are obedient and sensible will gradually become unreasonable under their own care. I can't believe that obedient children in the past will do many things that they can't accept. As a parent, I will almost collapse at this time and feel that I have no dependence and no direction. I don't know what to do to keep myself going. What's wrong with the child and what's wrong with the family will often arouse the attention and reflection of the family at this time. Whether it is a child's problem or a parent's problem, I believe only the family concerned knows best, not the so-called expert theory. The so-called experts only preach at the theoretical level, because life is realistic, and it is best to be willing to accept and pay. Don't hurt children in the shadow of the so-called love traction experts.
It doesn't matter if the child has a problem. The important thing is whether parents can be normal when their children have problems, and whether they can give themselves a time to straighten out and manage their emotions while telling their children. When they are helpless and depressed, if it is difficult to sort out the problem with the help of their families, remember to let yourself accept the help of a professional psychological counseling studio as soon as possible, instead of blindly proving yourself with your own self-righteous assumptions, accusing your children with your own authority, and measuring their right and wrong with your own thinking. In other words, is there really something wrong with the child? Can you give yourself a time to know yourself again? If you are confused and helpless about yourself, how can you say that you love and save your children?
Mom is the best psychologist for children. When children have problems, don't put the blame on others. They can give each other time. Especially as parents, they can sit down calmly and clearly straighten out their children's growth and problems. As long as my parents are careful and my mother is willing, I believe they will understand what they should do. I'm afraid that as parents, they are just parents, just use their own thinking to measure and complain about their children, and forget who they are. Ignoring children's needs, just asking children according to their own wishes, the so-called questioning or not, the so-called right or wrong, who gave the positioning, can you look at children from another angle, don't just look at children with colored glasses, learn to appreciate and accept children, spend more time with children, I believe you will find that there are many shadows and influences on children, and if you are too lazy to change yourself, what can you expect children to change? Children are a mirror of parents. Parents' words and deeds inadvertently affect their children. Can you give yourself time to take care of yourself instead of torturing your children because of your actions? Children are often innocent, but as a parent, how do you take care of them?
Being a psychiatrist is simple. Don't give yourself too many reasons and excuses, and don't rigidly copy the theories of so-called many experts and masters. Each of us is the most professional psychologist, and we are our own best psychologist, especially as parents today, they are the best psychologists for their children as long as they are willing. Don't put the blame on others, and don't give children too much depression and burden. As long as you can accompany and understand, you can trust your child.
A mother is a child's best psychologist. Seeing the children's problems, can she remember her own problems and insurmountable plots, don't evade her responsibilities, learn to change and accept, do her duty well, and be confused and helpless to herself? Remember to seek the help of professional psychological counseling studio, that is, many on-the-job psychological counselors need to accept the supervision of other psychological teachers when necessary, not to mention our parents, not to mention worrying about themselves. As long as you are willing, as long as you really love, give love, and love from the heart, I believe that you will accompany your child out of the temporary psychological dilemma and have a normal heart to face happily, and happiness and love will accompany you. What else is there to worry about?