She is full of grievances but confused and helpless, which makes me seem to see myself when I was young.
I always feel that I have no talent and I always feel that I am not understood and valued. It seems that the whole world owes me an apology and a reward.
After more than 20 years of polishing, I realized that the reason why a person feels this way is because he doesn't work hard enough and is not good enough to impress people.
Only when you are outstanding, what you reap is the hope of everyone and the promotion opportunities that come to you.
If you don't work hard, don't blame others for looking down on you.
You must work until you can't do anything to make yourself look effortless.
If different people do the same thing, the result will be very different.
In the office, Xiao Deng does all the trivial things. No wonder any sister of the office owner is a notorious snob. Xiao Deng is not a graduate of a famous university, but a foreigner. There is no one in the unit who can be called "foreign aid" or "backer" except knowing his colleagues.
The above is Sister He's care for Xiao Deng, and let Xiao Deng participate in everything, which means training and exercising her in all directions. But in fact, they are all trivial things that are time-consuming and thankless.
Xiao Deng saw through these "conspiracies" and had disputes with He Jie from time to time. Since then, He Jie has had all kinds of excuses, and denied Deng's performance in front of the leaders for many times.
In this case, who will put in a good word for Xiao Deng? That's why she pushed my office to complain to me. Because I'm the only one in the company who doesn't participate in all kinds of gossip.
I asked Xiao Deng, how much effort do you think you have put into your work? She said in a trance, about eight points.
Her uncertain tone stems from her lack of effort. For example, once proofreading a document, after the leader finished reading it, Xiao Deng threw it directly to the printing room for the staff there to correct it. If I were you, I would revise it myself first, then send it to the printing room, and then proofread it again after the printing room is finished.
The reason why I am so cautious is that I have suffered a lot of "natural" losses.
I chatted with Xiao Deng about this "little thing" and reminded her that even the smallest thing can be perfect as long as you are patient and careful. Every little thing, when handled properly, has different meanings. I will also label myself as "reliable and capable".
After that, you will have the opportunity to participate in more important work, get more opportunities to "see the world", and hone your business ability and communication ability when you finish the tough tasks again and again in the future.
When you deal with challenges more often, you will naturally be able to be "independent". Problems that once seemed impossible can be easily solved.
Therefore, Xiao Deng was excluded by Sister He because he didn't do his best and didn't put himself in an accurate position. What about graduate students? Since you are employed, you are a "newcomer". You must accept the requirements of the post and be competent for many tests and challenges related to it. This way, others will take the initiative to shut up, because you can't find your loophole.
If you don't work hard, don't blame others for looking down on you.
No one will pretend to work with you, because the result will not lie.
In the workplace, there is another phenomenon, which is pretending to work hard. Especially in front of leaders, even if they don't do anything at ordinary times, they will always pretend to be busy and hard at work.
When the leaders leave, they will immediately return to a lazy state like a deflated ball.
This kind of typical "two-faced", in fact, colleagues are all aware of it. But no one will expose it in public and make everyone lose face.
It is inevitable that a person really doesn't care about work. And those who regard work as their life will never fool too much. Because they understand that the final result of fooling others is being fooled.
Xiao Deng is actually not satisfied with this job. She said that her boyfriend was a Ph.D. student at a university in Guangzhou, and he was invited there many times, either to get married first or to find a new job, so he wouldn't see each other several times a year.
The two have deep feelings, and both parents are urging them to register for marriage as soon as possible. Xiao Deng works as a clerk in this 18-line small county, and even two adults don't think it's that important.
So many times, Xiao Deng actually put his mind on reviewing his lessons and preparing for the exam. For work, many times, it's just posturing.
What puzzles her is why others seem to be pretending, but they can still be watertight and will be seen through by her every time.
I told Xiao Deng that others are not pretending, but practice makes perfect. After years of training, they have mastered it and dare not take it lightly, because most people have no way out.
If you don't work hard, don't blame others for looking down on you.
If you don't work hard, you can't blame others for not paying attention to you.
The communication between strangers depends on money to narrow the distance or appreciate each other. They are willing to praise you, cheer you up and introduce you to a better platform for free.
In this regard, Xiao Deng also feels the same way. For example, Xiao Hui, a temporary worker who joined her at the same time, can speak four languages, so even this trivial matter, she is impeccable in learning foreign languages. Especially in a large-scale event, Xiaohui volunteered to save the scene because the invited foreign host was caught in a traffic jam on the road.
We have such courage because Xiaohui is very clear about all the processes of the whole activity, and many small things are done by herself. Including the text of the host. Secondly, she used to be a teacher in a training school, so hosting activities is only an open class.
Therefore, Xiaohui became the biggest beneficiary of that activity. She is favored by that company. Please be the manager of public relations department. In this way, Xiaohui quickly got rid of the status of a temporary worker and moved to a big company that everyone envied.
On the other hand, Xiao Deng, who has always been lofty, has no feeling of "going all out" for Xiao Hui.
Finally, Xiao Deng said helplessly: "It turned out that I didn't work hard enough!
If you don't work hard, don't blame others for looking down on you.
The human potential is immeasurable. Many times, people have accomplished nothing, not because of poor talent or poor objective environment, but because they have not worked hard enough.