Therefore, such a model of dealing with the relationship stems from the fact that both of us are unwilling to make concessions and can't find a good way to deal with the problem for both sides. Contradictions are stranded on one side, and the more they accumulate, the more resentment and mutual accusations they leave behind, and the last trace of love, warmth and comfort is exhausted.
If you don't talk, I don't talk, and both of them are in a passive state, then the communication mode of the Cold War will only form normally. Do you think that if you don't talk, you can avoid contradictions, and if you don't ask questions, things will be solved automatically by time? Neither. Take the initiative to open the communication invitation, frankly reveal your real thoughts and needs, and ask your husband's voice, so as to accurately see the other party's real needs, otherwise they will fall into a state of being ignored and shelved, and their attachment will be cut off.
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