What contradictions may occur with my mother-in-law in the process of parenting?

First, the problem of eating. I have always advocated that children grow up to be themselves and return the process of their growth to their mothers.

In the conflict between my mother-in-law and me in the process of parenting, although the problem of eating is not the first, it is definitely the most serious one. When the baby 1 year-old was a little over, I began to cultivate the children to eat independently, because I was taking care of the children alone at that time, so I had the final say. It is also very smooth for children to eat independently. Eating every day is like having fun. Later, when the child was about 2 years old, her mother-in-law came. When I saw the child eating with a spoon, I began to scold me, saying what am I doing as a mother? I don't feed such a small child, and other children are still feeding at the age of 6 or 7. How can my own children eat by themselves?

I was scolded many times for this. It doesn't matter. The baby is mine anyway. I insist. Now, looking at the mothers and grandmothers who are chasing Xiong Haizi, I feel sorry for my children for 5 seconds.

Second, I fell and struggled on the floor.

When the child was very young, whether she fell off the bed or fell while walking, her mother-in-law always picked up the baby at once, then slapped the floor angrily and said, "Let you bully our baby." After coming down a few times, I really can't stand it. But I will leave this problem to my husband to deal with and let him come forward and tell my mother-in-law that it is wrong. Therefore, how important it is to have a husband with the same educational philosophy.

Third, children do housework.

When children reach a certain age, they want to take the initiative to participate in housework because they think it is fun. Of course, I know that I will sweep the floor again after they sweep the floor, and I will brush the dishes again. But as long as the children ask to do housework, I will agree. As a result, the mother-in-law will say to the baby (girl): "You still have to learn to do housework. Will you serve others in the future? " Let's not learn to do housework, let others raise it later. "In this sentence, I read about my grandmother's love for her granddaughter, but this way is really a wrong love.

So, no matter what, I will involve the children. Trouble is trouble. If you are scolded, as long as my baby is well, it will be fine.

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