What is the Peach Blossom Garden in your mind?
"The land is flat and open, so is the Star House. It belongs to fertile land, beautiful pond, mulberry and bamboo. Bustling traffic, chickens and dogs hear each other. "
This is the beautiful life scene of Tao Yuanming's "Peach Blossom Garden", which expresses people's yearning for a way of life.
I believe that everyone has his own dream of a peach blossom garden;
So where is your "Peach Blossom Garden" residence? The word "Peach Blossom Spring" represents a certain lifestyle you want in your heart.
The lifestyle in Peach Blossom Spring is not necessarily what everyone yearns for;
Some people just like the life of "leisurely seeing Nanshan under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums";
Some people just like the bustling downtown;
Some people just like plain life. They don't want pure countryside or pure land of gold.
Choosing the house and city to live in is choosing your lifestyle.
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Buying a house = lifestyle
Zhou came to Shanghai from his hometown on business. He is a little friend of mine. He came to Shanghai early at that time, and his family business was also very good, such as hotel entertainment and catering. /kloc-When I came to Shanghai 0 0 years ago, I came to see him.
I sold my house in Shanghai four years ago and went back to my hometown to invest in a hotel, but the investment in my hometown has not been very smooth in recent years; I told him that if we come to Shanghai again and start to struggle, there will be more opportunities in big cities than in our hometown.
He shook his head: "Four or five years later, all my friends and business partners are now in their hometown, and there is no way to come over."
I will get a general idea of his lifestyle from some fragmentary information in my circle of friends, which is completely different from Shanghai.
So when I was doing live broadcast recently, a friend asked me privately, what should I consider before buying a house?
I replied, "What kind of lifestyle do you want?"
Yes, did you seriously consider this problem before you prepared to buy a house?
This is an important issue related to whether you can buy the house you want.
The problem of lifestyle is not nothingness, it is always with us, but it doesn't seem to exist when you don't think about it.
"We are not selling a house, we are selling a way of life."
I think you have seen such a real estate advertisement.
I believe many people know. Yes, it is undeniable that developers are trying their best to promote their houses. However, when we calm down and think about it, this advertisement is actually true.
We may often encounter such a problem:
Parents who have been living in the countryside are often not used to living with their children in big cities. Their parents are very willing to visit their children in the city, but they don't want to live for a long time.
Why is this?
Mainly because of the long-term lifestyle and the characteristics that the elderly themselves are not easy to change;
Maybe we have encountered such a thing:
The newlyweds have not lived in their new house for long, and they are going to divorce. Why?
Because the wife is determined to sell the house and buy another one in another place, the husband is determined not to agree. Why does the wife want to sell the house?
Because she can't stand the fact that this community is full of old people who play mahjong and Tai Ji Chuan, her husband feels good and has a good reputation: a harmonious community, and his wife is so angry that she wants a divorce.
What does this mean?
In fact, lifestyle also means some values, and the young couple may have to re-examine their lifestyle. There are many phenomena about lifestyle.
We can't show them all and explain them to you. We just want to tell you one question: take a serious look at your lifestyle.
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Three suggestions on buying a house and choosing a lifestyle
(1) Examine your personality, lifestyle preferences, work circles and friends and relatives;
And through introspection, find out where the core point of your lifestyle is or what you can't accept at all and what you are willing to accept.
(2) Tell your lover or parents what you like best and what you can't stand most, and try to balance yourself and your family in your lifestyle.
(3) In the whole process of looking at the house, we should consider all kinds of lifestyle-related issues of the house together;
Compare what you are most willing to accept and what you can't accept, and then weigh the purchase decision.
In fact, when you think about lifestyle issues.
You will pay more attention to the residents of the whole community and the various supporting functions of the community (such as clubs and sports fields). ) and various supporting facilities outside the community.
At this time, your thinking about buying a house is all-round.
Of course, lifestyle is not immutable, and neither are your favorite and least favorite preferences;
This requires you to look at your lifestyle with a developmental perspective and your preferences with self-improvement values;
This may be the important art of successfully buying a satisfactory house. It is impossible to tell you what kind of lifestyle you should choose. Everything is ultimately up to you.
Anyway, please remember:
The house represents the lifestyle you choose to some extent. So before buying a house, you should carefully consider whether the house you want to buy matches your favorite lifestyle.