First of all, the society is developing faster and faster, and cars are becoming more and more popular. Who can buy a car in the countryside means who has money. So now we need not only a house, but also a car in many cases. More often, it is to keep up with the trend. With the improvement of living conditions, farmers buy cars for the convenience of going out. Coupled with the admiration for cars in recent years, houses and cars have become necessities for marriage, and farmers are under great pressure.
In the past, boys were preferred to girls in rural areas, so there were more boys born in rural areas at that time. Now that we are of marriageable age, there are very few girls in rural areas, and almost all of them have gone out to work. Poor thing. Therefore, the competition for men to marry their wives is very stressful. Of course, if the woman wants something, the man has to meet it in different ways. Because you don't know her, there will naturally be other men to know her.
The bride price is the most tangible thing given by the man. You should know that the bride's parents raised her daughter so much, and the high bride price is actually to test your strength and see if you can really trust your daughter. After all, getting married is not a very simple and easy thing. Money is the foundation of everything.
For the woman, it may be to make her daughter live better, but it may also be that other people's family requirements are so high, and a psychological comparison is naturally getting higher and higher; However, parents should not be too involved in their children's marriage for the sake of bride price, because it is their daughters who live together all their lives, not themselves. No matter how good you are to her, you choose a family with a good family, but it's not what you like. This marriage may not last long.