Is it necessary for parents to ask Dabao for advice before giving birth to a second child? Why?

Of course, parents should seek the advice of the first child when they have a second child. After the second child policy was opened to the outside world, many families who wanted to have a second child met with strong opposition from their eldest brother. Some force their parents to have a second child by death, and there are a series of problems that stipulate property inheritance. Therefore, if parents want to have a second child, they must seek the opinions of their eldest brother and pay attention to his opinions. Big brother disagrees. If parents really want it, I think ok will communicate with children slowly.

However, I think it has something to do with parents' education that eldest brother doesn't want younger brother and younger sister. My little niece strongly opposes her parents having a second child, because when she was a child, my brother-in-law helped her say that she would earn something from her if she had a second child, so she didn't kiss her so much. Because they didn't want to pass it on to her children at that time, now she wants my little niece to disagree and cry whenever she says it. Fortunately, after my eldest sister-in-law, she slowly and correctly guided me for a long time before my little niece accepted it. No matter whether you want it or not, don't joke in front of children whose younger brothers and sisters don't like her. Children will feel insecure. On the contrary, it is impossible to educate children to have love from their parents, and you will continue to get more love from your younger brother or sister.

Be sure to ask your eldest brother for advice. Because a second child is only available when every member of the family needs it. If the eldest brother doesn't accept Bauer's arrival, there will be many differences between the two children, so parents must ask their children for advice when they are pregnant with a second child. With Bauer, the time for parents to take care of their eldest brother will be relatively reduced, so parents should let their baby know that even with Bauer's love for her, their care for her is not easy to change. The birth of younger brothers and sisters has caused work pressure to children, and parents' preference for a second child has aggravated the experience of children falling out of love and being unpopular.

And long-term love barriers will cause indelible harm to children. The boss wants fairness and justice, not objective fairness and consistency. Instead, they are seen and valued by their parents, and they can experience that they are still deeply loved by their parents. The concept consciousness conveyed by adults is very important, which can directly or indirectly hurt children's feelings. If an adult tells his boss that he doesn't want him to feel lonely because he loves him, he wants him to take care of Bauer with his parents. Secondly, when the two children have arguments and differences, they don't protect Bauer, which makes the boss feel that their parents have not been left out because of the appearance of their younger brothers and sisters.