Although they are not true lovers, their spiritual fit makes their relationship deeper than that of their partners, that is, soul mates. Many people think they can be together, but in fact they know each other very well. So they know very well that it is impossible for two people to be together. You know, their relationship can only stop at the state of soul mates. Perhaps for them, love doesn't have to be together, keeping a certain distance, sharing life and opinions, and silently blessing each other is their best state.
Youshan's first marriage made her understand her pursuit. She didn't want to be a housewife. She wanted to have her own business, but in her first marriage, she was a full-time housewife. Although her husband Steinmeier is very close to her, the man's character is also weak and obedient to everything his mother says. This makes You Shan's life in her husband's house very uncomfortable. Because of disagreement with her mother-in-law, many things have clashed with her mother-in-law. In the end, You Shan couldn't stand her husband's quick divorce and didn't even ask for compensation.
For You Shan, although Haig is very old, his life experience is much richer than others. Both of them are rational enough, and they don't rely on impulse. For them, the mode of getting along is comfortable, and they will share their opinions together if there is anything.
Their personalities are very different. You Shan is a person who likes to associate freely with people everywhere, while Haig is a low-key person. He stays in the studio and writes songs every day. When they are together, Haig always does his own thing, while You Shan stays quietly, but maybe this is the best way for them to get along.