What should you pay attention to when someone you like contacts you one day?

Generally speaking, what happens when someone you like sends you a message?

1. In situ sand sculpture

When I received the information of the person I like, I remembered many scenes in the joke. Whether it is a boy or a girl, I will roll around in circles and even talk to myself excitedly, which seems to be a typical sand sculpture behavior.

From a psychological point of view, this is probably the emotional expression when people encounter unexpected results. The essence of such behavior is the most authentic child behavior, which shows that everyone still has the purest fantasy about the person he likes, and it is also an inner yearning for beauty.

2. Grab the phone to confirm immediately.

If you receive a message from someone you like, will you believe it? Many people still can't believe it, especially for secret admirers. Some people will set up special sound reminders for their favorite objects so that they can hear them even if they are not in their hands. The first reaction may be to grab the phone to confirm.

I think what stands out here is timeliness. When you like someone, you are eager to interact with him, so as soon as you receive a message, you will reply immediately, almost one message per second.

3. My heart is pounding.

When I receive news from someone I like, I believe that many people's physiological reaction is that their hearts will be pounding. As the saying goes, loving someone is just a heart-warming feeling. You like a person. If you don't consciously mention him to you, you will feel very sensitive, and you will feel that your left atrium has been hit, not to mention that the person you like actively sends you a message.

Let's not talk about why people who like you send you messages. As long as it is sent, as the receiver, you will be excited as long as you like the other party.

Reply endlessly

If the person you like really sends you a message, and you have been confirmed and digested by the above, then after calming down, most people will reply to each other calmly. Of course, they just feel calm, but in fact their mood is exposed in some details.

For example, the other party simply asks you: Have you eaten? You will say: yes, not long after eating, I ate out today, with friends? In short, a simple question will be answered in detail, or even asked by you, and a new topic will be initiated. Facts have proved that only chatting with people you like will not be perfunctory and boring, and simple chatting will make people reluctant to end.

After all, it is still a happy thing for someone you like to send you a message. If you like someone, do you expect to get information from them? If he did send it to you, how would you react?