Jason said that she didn't care about her relatives' scolding, because those relatives were just cynics, standing and talking like nothing happened.
Jason said that the reason for this incident was that she refused her mother's request for money to buy a car for her brother, and then drove her back, so she left these accusations because her mother embellished her everywhere. Jason said that if she had to do it again, she would still do it. There was no suspense, because it was her mother's fault, and she didn't have any fault.
Jason said that she hasn't been back to her parents' home for five years, because in her view, the family didn't regard her as a relative at all, only regarded her as a tool to make money.
Zhang Jie said that his father died early and his mother preferred sons to daughters since childhood, so there was no happiness in childhood. She had no choice since she was a child. She had to leave school early to earn money for her younger brother. She doesn't have her share of good things, and many things she uses are rejected by her brother. Even her mother often scolded her for losing money. I was taught from an early age that my brother is the most important. The meaning of her existence is to help her brother live a better life.
She made great sacrifices for her brother and even for her marriage. That year, she was lucky to meet her current husband. His family was very good and the conditions were very poor, so her mother told her directly: "Daughter, you can get married and add 200,000 yuan to your brother's apartment." At that time, after hearing her mother's request, she was completely desperate, because in her opinion, no man would be so stupid.
To Jason's surprise, her husband, who knew her like the back of his hand, was so persistent that he pushed his way through the crowd and agreed. So at that moment, Jason said to her mother, "I promise you, but you are no longer my mother, and we will break up relations from now on." When my mother heard Jason's words, she agreed without hesitation, which made Jason feel relieved and especially sad. So she was sold by her mother.
Although her mother-in-law has always been biased against her after marriage, her husband has always protected her, so she is particularly happy and has her own children. At that time, Jason thought that she might never see her mother again in her life.
But I don't know, just a few days ago, her mother actually came to me. Without any caring and attentive, ask her for money to buy a car directly. She also said that if her brother couldn't buy a car, his daughter-in-law would divorce him, and her only sister had to help her brother. Hearing these words, Zhang Jie was particularly angry. Why did she help him herself? So without any explanation, I directly rejected my mother and kicked her out.
Because of this, Jason became the target of public criticism, and became a baiwenhang and unfilial girl in everyone's eyes. Sister Zhang asked me, did she really do something wrong?
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with Jason, because she has no obligation to help her brother buy a car, so even if his brother gets divorced, it has nothing to do with her, because for this matter, Jason helped her brother buy a car for mutual affection, and it is also her obligation not to help her brother buy a car, because Jason does not owe her brother.
For this matter, even from the moral and human point of view, Jason is not wrong, because her family is really bad to her and is calculating her everywhere, so she has no revenge, which is the greatest tolerance. She should never have helped her family.
Why do others hurt us, and we can only be gentle and good for evil? Do we really think we are stupid?
In my opinion, it is Jason's mother and brother who make the most mistakes, because they are not only ungrateful, but also dissatisfied. Just like vampires, they always want to get something for nothing.
I told Jason never to care what others say, because what the world needs most are people who are not too old to join in the fun. Because the needle won't stick to them, they will never feel pain, and they won't have any empathy.
Now that the family is happy, what Zhang Jie has to do is to keep going and stay away from her unfortunate family, because her family will bring her trouble and pain, which is useless at all, so avoidance is the best choice.
In reality, many people often tell us that no matter what happens, we should learn to be tolerant and generous to the people we love, because blood is thicker than water after all.
People often say that you should learn from those who have hurt you, because they have made you stronger, so you have everything now.
But in fact, I have always sneered at these words, because even if a loved one hurts you, it is also hurt, and it is you who suffer. Why should we tolerate and forgive?
As Angela Zhang said in the program, "I have never been grateful to the people who have hurt me. Those injuries exist. They just reminded me not to be that person. Even without them, I will still be strong and alive. Because I was born strong!