I believe many people have experienced this situation. Classmates and friends said they would come over to play, so we said, "Let's go, have food and shelter." As a result, people really didn't mention it to you when they heard it. Not only did they come by themselves, but they also brought a family.
I think this is actually a rude behavior. When you say you are coming, you should say in advance how many people you are coming. Do n't wait As soon as the host picked you up, you found that there were so many people and the scene was so embarrassing. You are all strangers except you. Please don't invite me. I'm sorry, please. My heart is always a little uncomfortable, so the contradiction falls. How dare you use other people's money to ask someone to give you a favor? You may think that he invited you, but remember that when he said please, he meant to establish a situation where only you were present and not many others were present. Sometimes I just want to meet for dinner and catch up, but I didn't expect a few strangers to come. Some people say that he doesn't want to say it directly. I didn't push him, but come on, many people in China are like this. On the surface, I bite my teeth and swallow blood, but I don't want to secretly.
I have encountered such a thing in my personal life. One year on my birthday, my sister bought me a big room in KTV and invited some of my friends. My second sister also called one of her colleagues. This colleague asked me if I could take her cousin. My second sister thought it was no big deal to have one more person, so she agreed.
As a result, this cousin brought one of his girlfriends and two buddies when he came, so forget it. After they arrived, this cousin's girlfriend and buddies started calling people again, and there have been eight people coming! Plus the four of them, there are twelve people in all, not to mention some friends of my friends and my sisters in the room. The waiter came in and said that there were too many people changing rooms, and my sister wanted to change to a VIP room. After more than a dozen people changed rooms, several people began to rob wheat to sing, and the rest began to roll dice and drink. Originally, we ordered two cases of wine, but later they ordered it themselves and drank three cases. When the cake was cut at twelve o'clock, those people were still playing by themselves, and the birthday song shouted "five sixes, open!" " "After singing in this environment, my friends and sisters and I have always been embarrassed. We don't know each other, and no one came to say happy birthday to me from beginning to end.
After the rest, my sister paid more than two thousand yuan and walked home. Everyone is unhappy. Not only did I spend more money, but also because I had an unhappy birthday with a stranger.
Therefore, I advise those who want to visit their friends, whether you want to eat something or get in touch with feelings. If there are more than two people going together, please tell your friends truthfully to avoid this embarrassing situation. Those friends who say they are going to visit should also ask each other how many people are coming. Don't take other people's money as a favor when others invite you to have dinner or play together. Call a bunch of strangers to join in the fun. Their money didn't come from the wind. Only by understanding each other and putting yourself in their shoes can friends last for a long time.