A baby is lying on the ground crying in Chengdu. Ma Bao calmly played with her mobile phone. The child is willful, how should she educate?

Children are disobedient and always like to cry in front of their parents. What should parents do at this time? Some parents think that children will grow up, but most children don't really grow up. Before they were three years old, they were in a state of lawlessness. They will make a hullabaloo about at home and deliberately run wild with their parents. Sometimes they even do irrational things that give their parents a headache. At this time, we must pay attention to controlling children's emotions and controlling children's behaviors. ?

First, how to deal with unreasonable children?

What should parents do if their children are unreasonable in life? Sometimes when children are crying, let them play freely. This will make some children more willful and indulgent. Sometimes you can try to reason with your child, and then help your child get upset after reasoning with your child. You can also buy them some better toys or take them out to play. Tell the children loudly in front of their parents that we can't make a hullabaloo about just because we are angry.

Second, let children know that crying is wrong.

There is a saying that crying is a way to express emotions. Therefore, parents should stop their children from crying in time. In the face of children's crying behavior, parents must resolutely say no. If the child really has something that can't be expressed through proper channels, then let the child know that crying is wrong. Let children know to stop crying when they are angry, and know that yelling is not the solution to the problem. In education, if a child is found crying, parents must stop the child's behavior in time and let the child know that crying is wrong.

Third, we should educate children through material punishment and spiritual punishment.

Some parents think that it is good to have a meal when their children are disobedient, but in fact this way has no effect on solving their wayward behavior. In fact, parents can combine material rewards with spiritual rewards for education, which will also have a good effect and let children know that parents are really good to him.