My partner said so, what should I say? I don't know what to say. Can you help me analyze it?

She means looking for you, accompanying you and asking you to support her. If your financial conditions are not up to standard, you can put it mildly. For example, I can express that I earn too little now, how can I let my beloved accompany me to suffer? When I earn more, I will make you live better and eat better, and then I will talk about my own misery. What? Work 16 hours a day, and often work overtime and don't go home. Anyway, my side is in hot water. You came here to suffer. How can I bear to make my beloved girl suffer? I won't agree if you want. I will feel incompetent, I will suffer, and so on. I want to sell rotten everywhere, talk about the problem from the other side's point of view, and then achieve the goal of not letting her come. Well, I hope I can help you!