Transactional education is poisoning your children. Why did it become parents' favorite?

Now there is a phenomenon that parents always say? Can I watch TV for 30 minutes by reading extracurricular books? , or? Can I play with toys after washing dishes? Wait to stimulate children to do something. What is this called? Transactional? Education, in fact, may be really useful at first, but it becomes more and more useless later, even? Poison? ; Many parents think it is unfair or even not very good, but for children, as long as they do it, they don't think about whether it is good or not. Some children even perfunctory things directly, which will make them think that I did it. Why not let me watch TV and play with toys? I obviously did it, and then I would fool around with my parents, who were forced to agree; But even so, children are getting more and more? Wild? , will start to take the initiative to talk about conditions, and then talk to parents? Deal? .

Even some children will tell their parents something? Excessive? Conditions, some soft-hearted parents will promise their children, thinking it's no big deal, but what they didn't expect was that it would harm their children; For example, learning is something that children should do themselves, and children will accept this as one of the conditions, so that children can think that learning is a? Tools? You can let him play games and watch TV, so that the child's mind is wrong, but as a parent, he didn't think of it; In fact, it was a good idea, but once it was used wrongly, it would have such consequences. Because? Transactional? Education will make children lose the motivation to do these things. Reading was originally a good thing, but parents put it forward to let their children read? Deal? In this way, children's motivation to study will be less and less, and even reading will eventually become a thing of the past. The purpose of reading books is to watch TV and play games.

Faced with such an educational method, it is a great failure, and it is also very bad for children, but now many parents are using this method, and they will regret it when they find out.