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Chen Jingjing still doesn't know her real age. As far as I can remember, when she was about four or five years old, she went to deliver meals to her aunt alone. I accidentally spilled rice on my clothes on the way to deliver the meal. At this moment, a strange man who is not tall and holding something saw it and took her to a small restaurant to wash her clothes. A strange man lured Chen Jingjing into a bus with candy, and then sold her to a couple in Jiyuan, Henan Province, which is her current adoptive parents.
When she first arrived at her adoptive parents' home, she was threatened to call them parents. But the young Jingjing refused, because she knew that this was not her home and they were not her biological parents. It is conceivable that the consequence of her disobedience is being beaten. At night, she was afraid, so she hid in the cold bed and cried, thinking that her parents would come to her. She has been waiting, waiting. What followed was helplessness and disappointment.
There is a big willow tree in the village. She heard from the people in the village that there lived a fairy on the big willow tree. She often ran to cry and said to the big willow tree, "Big willow tree, if you are spiritual, please take me to see my mother or tell her where I am;" Mom, I miss you so much. I lost it. Are you looking for me crazily? " ?
Jingjing grows up day by day. The older she is, the stronger she misses her mother. The more she wants to escape from here and find her mother as soon as possible. But she had no other way. The only thing she can think of is studying hard. Only by studying hard can you go out to find your mother. So she secretly made up her mind.
Everyone in the village knows that Jingjing has been abducted, and some children even laugh at her for having no parents. She retorted excitedly, "I have parents, and I will find them one day." The quarrel with the child was heard by the foster mother. Jingjing primary school was forced to drop out of school by her foster mother in the fifth grade.
Suddenly one day, the foster mother changed her attitude 360 degrees and gently said to Jingjing, "I will never hit you again. Stay at home and don't go anywhere. " This flattered Jingjing, who naively thought that her adoptive parents would be really good to herself in the future, and almost moved to tears.
From that day on, the foster mother introduced her to an object and advised her to get married. She wants to get married so that she can leave this long-lost home and have a chance to find her mother. In this way, she promised and obeyed her adoptive mother and entered the marriage hall.
Married life is not as happy as Jingjing imagined. She gave birth to a son, but because the two sides have no feelings, they often quarrel with her husband, and her husband's family is not good to her. She went out to work after the baby was full moon. At this point, Jingjing had plans for divorce.
Is preparing for the divorce, my father-in-law told her on the phone to give the child away. In a rage, she said a cruel word: "Then you can send it." I didn't expect that they really pooled 12,000 yuan to send their children to foster care. She collapsed, didn't know the information of the adopter, spent all her savings, and couldn't find the child. She was even described by the villagers as the cruelest mother.
Yes, she thinks it's all her fault. She hated herself for not finding her mother and losing her child. What's the point of her living? Jingjing couldn't release her inner pain and committed suicide by drinking medicine. Fortunately, fate took care of her and she was rescued in time. Although I saved someone, I couldn't save her heart.
A village elder sister saw her listless appearance and encouraged her: "You can't kill yourself. How can you meet your children and mother when you are dead? " They are in this world. What will they do if you leave? "After listening to her sister's encouragement, Jingjing suddenly woke up. From then on, she cheered up and began to work hard to make money in order to find the children first.
In this way, I am looking for children while working. After several years, Jingjing gradually lived a normal life. She met her present husband and gave birth to a lovely son and twins. When she sees them, she can't help thinking of the lost child, and often thinks how happy they will be if they find the child!
No matter how happy the married life is, quarrels and frictions are inevitable. Once, Jingjing quarreled with her husband. She was so angry that she wanted to take the children back to her home and was about to leave. Her husband said loudly, "Stop hugging and sell the baby again." This sentence stung Jingjing like a knife. She cried and picked up the blade and cut her wrist. Her husband was frightened and rushed her to the hospital for dressing. After this happened, her husband never said such a thing again, and promised that if he found a child, he would understand her and treat her like his own. This makes Jingjing gratified and moved.
Now Jingjing is doing the work of selling pig feed. Although the job is dirty, smelly and tired, she doesn't dislike it. She said: "I earn money by my own labor, and I am not ashamed."
Jingjing found her parents as she wished through this program, although she still didn't find her children. But she said she wouldn't give up, and she would continue to work hard to make money and find children.
Reading the whole story brings me a lot of feelings and reflections. I am distressed by what Jingjing has experienced, moved by her strength and hard work, and angry at traffickers for abducting children. There are many abducted children like Jingjing, mostly because their parents lack safety awareness and have not given their children safety education. But at present, the country has made some propaganda and effective punishment measures to prevent trafficking. Why can we often see the news of children being trafficked? In the final analysis, there are still many reasons of their own. I have heard many parents and old people often say, "This will not happen to us." It is precisely because of this fluky psychology that we will relax our vigilance and have no awareness of the people around us, thus encouraging the bad guys to take advantage of it.
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Two days ago, my mother-in-law took her three-year-old daughter to the amusement park. After receiving the courier call, she asked the amusement park staff to help look after the children, hurried to get the courier, and left the children alone in the amusement park. I was angry when I learned about it, and then I was scared. Although there is nothing wrong with the child, I am worried that my mother-in-law has insufficient safety awareness. So, in the evening, I told my mother-in-law the story of Chen Jingjing, hoping that through the story, she would understand that she should never leave her children alone and should not trust any strangers casually. The human heart and the stomach are separated, so we should always pay attention.
There are quite a few old people and parents like mother-in-law They understand these truths psychologically, but when they really encounter something, they will unconsciously make such mistakes. Therefore, relatives around you can remind them at any time, such as seeing such news and forwarding it in time; At the same time, children's awareness of safety can be cultivated by buying picture books, comics and story sharing. In this way, children can really avoid danger and protect themselves when they meet strangers. Don't let your child be the next child to lose his parents.