Does anyone know what the engagement custom is in Linyi City, Shandong Province?

The man needs to prepare a lot, so he needs to buy the woman two clothes, including a belt and socks, a set of jewelry and a set of cosmetics. The woman only needs to buy the man a suit, including a hat, and then on the day of engagement, the woman will go to the man's house, and the man will give her a considerable meeting fee, also known as a gift. The amount varies depending on the man's financial ability. All relatives of the man's family should give the woman money to meet or give gifts. The relatives of the woman don't need to prepare gifts and meeting fees for the man, but the parents of the woman should give the man a certain amount of gifts, which is less than the gifts given by the man. For example, the man can give 10 thousand, and the woman can give 3 thousand or 6 thousand In short, it should not exceed the man's money. Then we can have dinner together. I have nothing to do after dinner. Take your things home. I'm talking about the customs of Linyi city, including the surrounding towns. Of course, if it is in other counties, the customs may be different. The safest way is to ask this person what the rules are. After all, this kind of victim is the man's business, hehe.