In the original "The River Never Returning", I worked hard after losing my Dai. In order to earn more money for those who look down on him, he and Daxun went south to the coastal cities to engage in daily necessities wholesale factory business. At that time, Dai had returned to the northeast, and they never contacted each other again. Later, after asking around, I realized that Dai was not with him, but married a soldier.
In fact, as a woman in a new era, I am especially wronged for Xiaofeng and want to "get justice" for her. It's not that Yang Xun doesn't deserve to wear it, but that Yang Xun doesn't deserve to wear it under that system. Why do you say that? That's because in their love, there is always an unequal relationship.
In the entrepreneurial stage, I fell in love with Dai, and Dai also fell in love. They are in love, but they have to face not only geographical relations, family relations, but also entrepreneurial relations. In the new world, he is the son of Yang's parents, his sister's "father" and his mother's support, so he must start a business to support the whole family. His pressure and his business difficulties caused friction between the two.
In TV series, Dai is an orphan. She has no parents and is helpless in the northeast. After knowing Yang Xun for less than a month, she was willing to leave everything behind and work hard with him in a strange city. In her mind, she just met Yang Xun.
Can bring him a sense of security, can give her to rely on, even in a strange city, with their own actions to Dai an account.
However, due to her mother's intervention, Dai lost her sense of security. She found that Yang Xun was not a person who could treat her wholeheartedly. He has an old mother and a younger brother and sister at home, and he has to take care of a large family. So in her feelings, she gave birth to a little uncertainty about her feelings.
Secondly, Yang Xun is in the stage of starting a business, and the pressure on him alone can be imagined. He has to face not only customers, but also the oppression of the national market policy. He is difficult and unstable, so what he needs is a woman who can give him strength and give him 100% support, but Dai is not. Dai has her own thoughts, the independent thoughts of women in the new era. From the small details of her silent frugality, we can see that she once taught her economic independence with the historical thought of orphans. Maybe Yang Xun can understand, but Yang Xun's mother can't. In the eyes of an old man in a feudal countryside, a wife suitable for his son is a woman who needs to do her best for her husband and will do housework. Therefore, the collision between feudalism and new ideas prompted this pair to fail for a long time.
Finally, Dai really loved it and gave him a hand when his later career was unsuccessful. In the original work, Dai later went to jail for his sister, and even helped at all costs. In the original work, Dai, Song and Wei Chunhong were all good women of that era, even women who paid for their lovers.