Whether married daughters should divide family property has always been a controversial topic, and some brothers and sisters even take it to court. But no matter what the final result is, it will affect the original brotherhood.
It is true that in the past, women were not qualified to divide family property. First, because people's ideas are conservative, and second, because there are many children and families are not rich, it has formed a conventional phenomenon: most of the family property is passed on to men, but not to women.
However, with the progress of society, the improvement of people's ideological consciousness and the perfection of laws, men and women have become equal, and women enjoy the same rights and obligations as men. Inheriting parents' property is no longer a son's privilege.
But in life, there are still some people who still stay in the feudal era and confidently think that children are different. As a result of stubbornness, either one party compromises or goes to court, and the family relationship is very good because the interests are divided.
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Aunt Yao is facing such a dilemma. When she announced on her 60th birthday that she would deposit 200,000 yuan to her daughter, and the house of 135 square meters was owned by her son, she was strongly opposed by her son's family, especially her daughter-in-law, patting the table and telling her that it was unacceptable.
Aunt Yao and his wife are ordinary workers, and their greatest achievement in life is to bring up a pair of children. In the past, wages were low and life was tight. It is not easy to eat meat at home, but a family of four is very happy and satisfied. The relationship between brother and sister is very good. No matter who eats snacks, they are thinking about each other.
Later, the benefits of the factory were booming and the treatment was improved. The couple changed to a big house and the whole family lived a happier life. When the children can work to earn money, the whole family and Qi Xin will save money together and plan to buy a wedding room for their son.
I don't know if I haven't saved enough money, but my daughter-in-law is pregnant before she gets married. After negotiation, Aunt Yao paid a down payment of 300,000 yuan to buy a wedding room. The real estate license is the name of the son and daughter-in-law. Although the mortgage is made by the young couple, the old couple feel sorry for their son, and they always save tens of thousands of dollars from their teeth every year to make up for it.
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In the second year, when her daughter got married, Aunt Yao didn't have enough money, so she bought some dowry casually. Years later, every time Aunt Yao thinks about it, she feels ashamed of her daughter and always wants to make some compensation. However, his wife disagreed with Aunt Yao's idea. He thinks it is more realistic to save more money for his children and grandchildren because his daughter is an outsider when she gets married.
A few years ago, my wife had a car accident and got 250 thousand compensation. Excluding all expenses, she left 200 thousand after her death. Aunt Yao saves money regularly and intends to keep it for her old age. Through the years of getting along with her daughter-in-law, Aunt Yao saw that her daughter-in-law was not a good stubble, so she left a hand.
My family hasn't stopped since I got this money. The daughter-in-law sent her son to ask for money every once in a while, but Aunt Yao refused, which led to the escalation of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Aunt Yao is disgusted with her daughter-in-law's behavior, and even more afraid to take out the money easily.
Last year, Aunt Yao accidentally fell down and needed someone to take care of her broken leg. Her daughter-in-law deliberately refused to come, but fortunately her daughter served herself. Through this incident, Aunt Yao saw the difference between her daughter and her daughter-in-law, and felt that her daughter only did her duty and did not enjoy any benefits, which was unfair to her.
Aunt Yao always feels uncomfortable after staying in bed. She was worried that if something happened, she would not be able to explain it in the future, so she wrote a will and hid it in the pillow, which clearly stated that the house was left to her son and left to her daughter.
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However, considering the daughter-in-law's character, Aunt Yao is not practical. Even if she had a will, if her daughter-in-law found it destroyed, wouldn't her daughter still have no money? Therefore, Aunt Yao pondered to find a place with many people to make the will public.
So Aunt Yao, who was thrifty all her life, invited many relatives to attend her 60th birthday. After three rounds of drinking, Aunt Yao showed her will and asked her nephew to announce the contents on her behalf. According to her idea, a flat of 135 is worth at least one million, and the deposit is only over 200,000. In any case, the son's family takes advantage, and even if the daughter-in-law is a little unhappy, she will calculate the account well.
Who knows that as soon as it was announced, my son and daughter-in-law began to make trouble. They not only complained that Aunt Yao was senile, but also called her sister shameless, and she had the face to compete with them for property. If she was not in the way, how could the old man make this decision?
After all, it is someone else's housework, and relatives can only make peace. It is not convenient to express their views and they don't want to offend either party. Daughter-in-law saw that no one spoke to Aunt Yao, and she pushed her luck even more. She pointed to her mother-in-law and said, "I don't accept this distribution. We should inherit it. Why give it to outsiders? If you dare to give, don't blame me for not giving you a pension! "
These words completely chilled Aunt Yao's heart. In recent years, my son's family has taken advantage of it and never gives money to the elderly. Even at the end of his wife's life, his daughter and son-in-law took turns to take care of them. The son is afraid of his wife, but the daughter-in-law doesn't talk. Even if he is filial, he dare not. It is empty talk to think about raising children to prevent old age.
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Now, Aunt Yao is no longer looking forward to it. She handed the passbook to her daughter in advance and warned her son and daughter-in-law that they must do their duty of support. In the future, all living expenses will be borne by the son's family, otherwise the house will also be given to the daughter, and the daughter will give her a pension.
Some people always think that the water spilled by the married daughter has nothing to do with her family. Actually, it's not. As a child, why is a daughter less valuable than a son? If parents can really get sick and don't ask their daughters to serve and support them, that would be great. Otherwise, why should we leave all the property at home to our son, but let our daughter do her duty without asking for anything in return?
In real life, daughters are often better than sons, especially when the elderly are unwell. My daughter is always busy, accompanying the old people. It's very filial for my son and daughter-in-law to pay some money to visit.
Not many parents can really make a bowl of water even. Generally speaking, parents are more or less partial to their sons, but whether they are evenly distributed or not, parents should consider leaving a share for their daughters, because that share is not only family property, but also your love for your children.
And those children who hold all the property of the elderly, even if they are cheeky, may not be winners. If they go to court, they may vomit more.