Some parents adopt an "autocratic" educational approach to their children's education, which is the most prone to problems. Because adolescent children gradually strengthen their sense of independence, they really want to show their "strength". However, due to the strict control of parents, there will be communication conflicts between children and parents. Children's psychology will always think that parents don't understand themselves and treat themselves as children. As a result, there is a problem in parent-child communication, and the child's emotions cannot be alleviated. At this time, the mobile phone will become a path for children to escape from real problems and can vent their emotions in the mobile phone world.
Step 2 avoid stress
Academic performance is generally the main criterion for adults to grade their children, but in a school, students will always have good grades and relatively poor grades, and those with relatively poor grades will be under pressure from parents, teachers, schools and other parties. Dull study and life, disciplined classroom and strict family environment are all the reasons why children are addicted to mobile phones. In the world of mobile phones, no one hurried their homework, and no one told them what to do, so that the children who were under great pressure suddenly felt paradise-like relaxation and freedom.
3, there is no correct guidance
Many parents often show their children pictures of playing games when touching their mobile phones, which will give them the illusion of first impression. Mobile phones are used to play games. It is the most effective way for parents to stay with their children when they are playing mobile phones, and it can also enhance the emotional communication between parents and children. Parents should spend some time and energy telling their children that mobile phones are not specially used for playing games, but also for making friends, watching news and studying. Through reasonable means, limit the time for children to play mobile phones every day, and let children treat mobile phones with a correct attitude.
At present, there are more and more cases of children's mobile phone addiction, and the proportion of Shanghai teenagers' psychological counseling "Ling Rui Psychology" contact is also rising. Parents should pay attention to their children's addiction to mobile phones, so as not to affect their healthy growth in adolescence.