I met many different people and had new feelings after breaking up. It is because of comparison that I understand that I have missed some of the most precious things in my life. He thought he had done something wrong, so he came back to you.
After breaking up for half a year, the woman had a new life and decided to let go of the past. You will be surprised to contact her after half a year, because both of them have been so far away. At the beginning, you had to leave without hesitation, and now you are disturbing your life.
Do you want to get back together after breaking up? Since two people chose to separate at the beginning, there must be insoluble contradictions between the two sides, and these frictions will not be washed away with the passage of time. When we were together again, it was for these reasons that two people disagreed. Therefore, more often, getting back together after breaking up is just repeating the same mistakes.
I'm doing well now, showing off to you.
People sometimes just breathe. Maybe you say he is naive, but now he has grown up. There is a good saying: I will become better because of you, but not because of you. So when he achieves something, or gets rid of what you say about him, he will show off to you, just show off. When Xiaoyu broke up with her predecessor for almost a year, one day the other party suddenly said to her: Now someone loves me. Xiaoyu understands that he just wants to prove that you don't love me and others will love me.
Does your ex-boyfriend want to talk to you? Reply or not?
Regarding whether to reply to your predecessor's information, the key is what kind of relationship you want to maintain with your predecessor:
If you are determined to break up with your ex and don't want anything to do with your ex, then treat this message as spam, or delete it, or blacken it, or turn a blind eye. Once you reply, your ex will invade your life again, and all your previous efforts to forget your ex will be in vain.
If the content of information is business or business, such as asking you a question or consulting something, you can't hide it, then don't be coy, just deal with it sincerely and directly. When you are in the process of communicating this matter, don't stray from the topic, talk about the matter and get down to business.
Remember: it's your business for your ex to send you messages, and it's up to you to decide whether to return or not. You've broken up. You don't owe your ex anything. Don't go back if you don't want to. Don't force yourself to reply to messages because of guilt and remorse.
If you want to reply, how to reply is more appropriate? It is a delicate matter to reply to your predecessor. Some things can be said and some things can't be said. According to your own wishes, if you intend to reply, what should you reply? Remember the following precautions, which will make you reply more appropriately:
First of all, be polite. Your business is over. Don't dwell on the past. Even if you have any resentment in your heart, you should show your manners and self-restraint at this time. If the wording and tone of your reply are sour and bitter, it will appear petty. If you reply in this way, you might as well not reply, because you will be angry after replying, and it is not worth sulking again for someone who has nothing to do with you for a long time.
Secondly, if the information content of your predecessor is to recall the past, or even to say that you miss you very much, even if you have mixed feelings at this time, don't hit it off immediately, have a warm chat with your predecessor and relive the past. If you both have the idea of getting back together, that's certainly gratifying, but at this time, you should stay awake and calm, think about the reason why you broke up at the beginning, and think about whether this reason has been solved now. If not, even if we get back together, we will make the same mistake again after a while. So the most important thing is to solve the problem that caused you to break up first, and everything else should be delayed.
Third, don't beat around the bush, be frank and straightforward. My ex sent me a message, and it is very likely that she wants to get back together with you. If you don't want to get back together, you have two ways to deal with it: 1) don't reply, continue to be cold with your ex and let him give up; 2) Reply, but tell you sincerely that you don't want to get back together. Don't give an ambiguous answer because you are afraid of hurting your ex's heart, misleading her into thinking that she still has a chance. No chance is no chance. It's not kindness, it's cruelty for you to delay your predecessor like this.
Fourth, a senior sent a message, but did not write the specific content, just tentatively asked? Hello? Something like that In the face of this shady information, if you want to reply, why not just ask? Yes, what can I do for you? . Once you ask this question, your ex will be embarrassed to keep asking, which will show your true intention more quickly. Ex is a past tense. Don't play ambiguous guessing games with ex. Only when you know your predecessor's intentions can you know what to do next, so that you won't be endlessly entangled with your predecessor.
How to start a chat with your ex? 1. If you want to get back together with your ex, you'd better talk about some topics of interest to each other from the beginning. When the other person is interested, two people have a chance to talk.
2, you can recall the warm moments of two people before, say something that two people are happy together, or something embarrassing, or you can narrow the distance between two people.
I don't know what to say, so I can only obey each other and listen to their opinions. At this time, you can respond to each other with some short sentences.
At this time, it is best not to talk about some embarrassing issues, such as unhappy or boring things between two people. Let's talk more about topics that can make the atmosphere happy.
At this time, you can praise each other. Even if you can't be together, you can praise each other. Everyone not only has shortcomings, but also definitely has more advantages than disadvantages, so praise each other more.