How to recover the emotional probability and how to maintain the family after a change of heart? Now that you have chosen, don't look back. Once a man changes his mind, he will cheat for life. Time won't kill everything. There is a great chance of how to save his feelings. I believe you have the answer.
How to save feelings is 1. First of all, you should adjust yourself.
I can understand that it is very painful to be disconnected from the internet for a while. If you love him at this time and feel relieved and relaxed because of your short leave, don't be sad, because we have made up our minds to save our boyfriend.
The mobile phone number of WeChat QQ does not need to be changed or deleted. Believe me, if you delete it, you will remember his contact information more deliberately. Even if you delete it, you will want to find him impulsively.
Second, go to exercise. When you exercise, you will feel better and have no time to think.
In those days, I only missed him when I was practicing yoga and walking, and did some things that he didn't finish when he was around.
He doesn't like what I used to do, but now he does it alone. Even if he doesn't want me, I can become a better self to meet a better him in the future. Maybe you can also travel and relax there. From the place where you are tired of staying, go to the place where others are tired of staying, appreciate their local customs, and maybe meet a romance. You gradually get used to a person's life and find that a person is actually quite good, unrestrained, and can live a wonderful and free and easy life.
Third, constantly improve yourself.
You can choose further study and so on to improve your professional skills.
Slowly let him relive some things that attracted him in the past, awaken his beautiful memories, and make him feel unpredictable and uncontrollable about you.
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There is a great chance of how to save feelings. After breaking up, women still love you.
There is no news of breaking up.
I think women like to talk about breaking up too much. How do I know if she really wants to break up? Just wanted to see if she told anyone around her after you broke up. Girls love face and value social prestige. If she announces to the social circle that there is no relationship between you after breaking up with you, it means that she is eager to show her single status. And if she's still hiding it, it's probably a fake breakup.
Every woman is good at pretending to break up and threatening each other with breaking up. If she hasn't blacked you out yet, announce to others that you two are not related. Congratulations! Then she's waiting for you to solve it. After breaking up, reflect on what the other party wants. If you solve this problem, you can have a second time. Although fake breakups are frequent and hurt feelings, it is not difficult to recover. The key is to judge each other's intentions and starting points. If you don't announce the news, you just don't want to announce the news of the breakup, because she thinks you haven't broken up yet.
Revenge and eliminate the traces of love
When in love, couples will give each other some small gifts, such as rings, necklaces, scarves, etc. In the sweet period, we will use the same items together, such as lovers' clothes, lovers' cups and lovers' rings; There are many intimate photos in the mobile phone photo album, and there are also many loving content on social software. These proofs that you have been together, you found that she broke up and threw them all away, which is worth pondering, my friends.
Do you think she stopped loving and threw it all away? No, because I still love it, so I threw it away!
Why? Because the memories carried by these items are unbearable for her. The separation between the traces of love and reality makes it difficult for the other party to face. She is afraid of seeing things and thinking about people. This is precisely because she can't let go, can't let go, so she quickly packed these things in a fit of pique.
The deep hatred for love and the retaliatory elimination of love traces are just a way to force yourself to get out of pain quickly. So if you see her cleaning up all this, don't be sad yet, which shows that she still loves you and you still have a chance.
Browse your social software frequently.
Women are very emotional and break up slowly. Many women can't sleep at night after breaking up. She can't stand the problems in her relationship and wants to leave you. They won't allow themselves to express their weakness and love you, but they say no, but their bodies are honest. They will still pay attention to their predecessors, such as secretly browsing each other's circle of friends, Weibo, Tik Tok, QQ space and so on.
If you find that she is still secretly observing your every move and knows your whereabouts like the back of her hand, don't miss this opportunity!
Single for a long time.
There are many opposite sex around her, but she is not with anyone. She may be too busy to love or feel inappropriate. But I want to emphasize that women have great emotional needs. If they have been single for a long time and have not yet entered the state of marriage and love, then she will definitely think of her predecessor! It is very likely that she never let you go, and anyone she meets doesn't feel as good as you in her heart. Because she can't choose anyone else. Even if it is not for this reason, after being single for a long time, she will inevitably miss the old love time, during which your image is beautified by the aura of memories.
Do you mind having new members of the opposite sex around you?
A woman's jealousy can't be concealed. There used to be, but now when she sees someone else around you, she feels reluctant to toss and turn. She can't stand the possibility that you may hold another woman's hand and get close to another woman. Because she still wants to possess you, she will still be jealous. As an ex, she has no reason to interfere with you, but she will make it clear. Even if she tried to hide it and pretended to ask casually, it was her intention. This idea is a signal that she is eager to renew her friendship with you.
Brush exists
For example, I often make excuses to contact, and I always contact you about what I want to get back from you today and what I want you to do tomorrow. I don't know why I always see her. Every time she always looks glamorous and accepts your kindness. Don't say that she wants to be your friend. These are all accidents and coincidences. There are not so many accidents, and there are not so many ex-girlfriends who can still be friends after breaking up. She just has nostalgia for you, so she is crazy about her sense of existence, for fear that you will forget her. This is a gesture. This is a hint. Take the chance, man.
If you also face the above situation, then congratulations, you can get back together with her, the key is to see how to do it!
Second, if you want to ease the relationship after breaking up, you must at least do the following three things.
1, reduce the purpose of your behavior.
When the party who broke up voluntarily offered to end the relationship with you, they actually had a lot of negative perceptions about you. Especially in the short term of breaking up, you can't help yourself and keep looking for each other. Her behavioral psychology must be very resistant.
Because she is always thinking, do you want to trick her back and hurt her again?
Because your purpose is too strong at this time, it is easy to be seen through by the other party, so she can only avoid you or use some methods to resist your attack.
Any gift, pestering or beating is invalid, so you won't last long and you won't have the confidence to continue.
At the beginning of breaking up, all your actions should focus on one thing, and that is to reduce the vigilance of the other party to you.
Breaking off diplomatic relations is indeed a way, because the passage of time can really make one person objectively re-examine another person. At least, if you don't know what to do with your situation, breaking off the relationship won't make it worse.
The time of breaking up is also a technical activity, which needs to be determined according to the core contradiction in your relationship and the main reasons for breaking up. If you miss the best time to break off diplomatic relations, you will probably break a new love, which will directly increase the difficulty of recovery.
How to determine this time? Generally, the other party can reply to your message in a short time and is willing to meet some of your small needs. We can get back together at this time.
At first, we can find some irrelevant topics to test each other. For example, if something falls on the other person and needs to be taken, or can you find an errand boy to deliver it for me?
For example, according to her major or the part of her job that she is good at, you ask some questions and ask for help.
If all these are acceptable to her, it proves that her negative perception of you has decreased a lot, so this is a better time to get back together.
And these requests have almost no purpose, so you should control the frequency, help and thank you, and then don't bother too much. Slowly, the other person will think that you really have no purpose, and then you will let your guard down.
2. Reverse negative impression and cognition.
When the other person gives you a negative impression, no matter what you say, it is hard for the other person to believe you.
Cognitive breakup is indeed one of the more difficult types in breakup recovery.
So you must take concrete actions to loosen each other's cognition, but it takes some time to reverse a negative impression.
Then at this time, the core point of your behavior purpose is: self-worth display.
The value display in this respect depends on the point that the other party cares most. Take out your notebook and I'll teach you a way! Now that you remember, what does she want you to change? One, two, three, what does she like most about you and admire most about you? One, two, three, list them at a glance.
The shortcomings have been corrected and the advantages have been improved.
Although what I say here is simple, it is not that simple to do.
Two people will go to the point of breaking up, actually because of an irresistible factor-irresistible inertia.
Since you choose to save, you should try to avoid the influence of negative inertia on your behavior.
Give yourself some time, don't rush to temporary results, for example, about half a month, at least see some results yourself, in order to show your value?
The purpose of self-worth display:
1, causing certain sexual attraction.
2. Continue to export positive spiritual values. (change of attitude towards life)
3. Change negative impression cognition
3. Rebuild relationship comfort.
Step 2: If your self-worth is displayed in place, the other person's attitude towards you will definitely change qualitatively, and you can basically return your information in seconds. At this time, you can try to create some ambiguous atmosphere during the chat, or start to further guide the other party to meet your needs.
At this stage, your requirements can be bolder than the previous stage. Of course, you still have to adhere to the principle of gradual progress.
If you have resumed the state of chatting every day, or the other party has started joking with you, don't make a unilateral request for compound at this time, at least see the other party's attitude.
Breaking up and getting back together often doesn't need a clear compound signal. When the relationship and atmosphere of two people are in place, they will naturally get together again. After all, they all knew each other before.
Knock on the blackboard, knock on the blackboard! ! ! I have to nag again that saving this thing is not just saving itself. Because the ultimate meaning of intimacy lies in meeting a better self in each other.
It's time to recover, but both sides should change and make a new round of adaptation. While constantly improving each other, find and solve problems, which is also the significance of your future cooperation.
If you really want to recover, but you don't have the right direction and method, and you are worried that you can't cope with the unexpected situation, Annie Ann Recovery Team is willing to help you solve the problem with Ctrip.
As for the feelings between the two sexes, there are actually many factors that will affect the final direction of the incident. Many friends tried rashly before they understood the core problem, which led to further deterioration of the situation.
We analyzed many cases and found many effective ways to save them. If you are in a state of breaking up and want to try your best to save it, then please learn the recovery methods we have summarized in a lot of practice! It will make you take fewer detours and quickly master the secret of recovery.