How to be a good mother and educate children correctly

1, learn to be a mirror, and parents should set an example. Every child is Bai Lianhua at first, and his later behavior is related to his parents. Parents should be more patient and try to communicate with their children in a language they can understand.

2. If family conditions permit, children should try to bring their own, and there will always be differences in intergenerational education, because the elderly love their children more.

3, a lot of companionship, companionship is actually very simple, usually walking or reading books after meals, playing games with children, taking children out to play during breaks, etc. Because in the children's world, the companionship of parents is very important. On the one hand, it can enhance the feelings with children and help them develop good living habits. On the other hand, it is convenient for parents to understand their children's growth, even if it is the guidance and education of bad behavior.

4. Less material comparison and more spiritual encouragement. Every child is unique and has its own characteristics. No matter how imperfect our children are in some ways, as parents, we should learn to accept and guide them. Don't label them, let them believe in themselves. This can build their self-confidence and positive attitude.

Pay attention to the correct education of children.

1. In a state of extreme anger, parents certainly cannot discipline their children in a rational way.

Therefore, when parents can't calm down anyway, Mr. Cheng suggested that parents leave the scene temporarily, or divert their attention to other things, such as calling friends to chat and listening to music. When you calm down, talk to your children.

2. Correct children's expectations.

Sometimes parents are really too eager to achieve success, and often take standards that they can't do. Maybe parents thought they could do it, but they never did! Ask the children. You know, it is normal for children to be young, active, stubborn and forgetful. If parents really want to make demands on their children, they should also consider their growth. Don't always look at their performance with a magnifying glass.