But there is one person who is different. She has been in love with her boyfriend for ten years and hasn't got married and had children yet. Her name is Xu, unmarried.
Then why don't you get married and have children when you are 45 years old? This may have something to do with the family where she was born. Xu Yu 1974 was born in an ordinary family in Beijing. Her parents are both workers.
When he was in elementary school, Xu's father quit his job and opened a neon factory. The factory will undertake the neon light box business, but the hardware facilities were backward at that time, and the words on the light box had to be handwritten.
In order to save money, my father asked Xu to learn calligraphy, but Xu had no interest in calligraphy. She was "forced" by her father to go to the Children's Palace to learn calligraphy, and under the pressure of her parents, she recited Tang poetry and Song poetry.
My father's education was successful, which enabled Xu to successfully enter the Beijing Film Academy as an adult. She starred in many classic films such as Spring in the Subway, Love to the End, and directed the film "My father and I only know one place where her numerous awards can be called a talented woman in the entertainment circle.
Xu has made great achievements in his career, but due to his father's high-pressure education as a child, he formed a rebellious character as an adult. In addition, her parents often quarrel at home, which also leads to her fear of marriage.
20 10 Xu directed and starred in the movie "Du Lala's Promotion".
After falling in love, the relationship between the two is stable, and many people think that they will get married smoothly. But 10 years ago, Xu and Huang were still lovers.
In the photo, Xu leans back and acts like a girl in front of the camera. Her skin is still smooth and delicate, like a girl over 45 years old. Although both of them are very sweet, they have no plans to get married and have children, and Xu admits that he is unmarried.
Xu's attitude towards marriage has sparked a heated discussion about whether it is the right choice not to get married and have children. Why do more and more young people choose not to get married and have children? There are three reasons why more and more people choose not to get married and become infertile:
First: the influence of parents, the influence of family background on children is lifelong, just like Xu gradually lost hope for marriage in his parents' quarrel Therefore, parents should give their children a happy family atmosphere when they are young, and let them have a desire for family. Only when you grow up will you want to get married.
Second: the economic pressure is too great. In today's society, young people have to face many pressures, such as houses and cars. The economy has become a huge obstacle for many young people to get married, and many people are ashamed to get married. If parents can help children at this time, many people are still willing to get married.
Three: uncompromising, independent, and more importantly, unable to find a suitable person. Nowadays, many people say that they would rather choose high-quality singles than low-quality marriages, which is also an important reason why many people don't get married. Of course, there are many free and easy people like Xu, but they just love not to get married.
Not getting married, of course, is a personal choice, but one should consider the future life and loneliness. When I think of friends, I can't see others or jobs or their children. When you are 30 to 40 years old, you think that marriage is a bondage, as chic as Xu, but you will regret this choice in the 1950s and 1960s.
The loneliness of old age is getting deeper every day. Choosing to be single, not in love, not married and not having children is a person's choice. But weigh the cost of your choice and choose a life that you won't regret.